Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Home

"Is your home as cozy as you would like it to be?  Does it reflect who you and your family are?

"...List the dwelling places of your life, according to the age [you were when you lived there].  What did you love about them?"
--Sarah Ban Breathnach, "Something More"

Yes.  My home is cozy and comfortable.  Warm.  Friendly.  Casual.  I love it.  I think it represents my hubby and I very well.

As far as dwelling places throughout my life...  Uffda.  Get ready.  It's a long list!

1.  An apartment in Colorado.  Only lived there til I was 6 months old or so...  I'm sure it was splendid!
(Mom and me...  That bench we're sitting on?  It's now in my entryway.  Fun.)

2.  A duplex in Illinois.  We lived here until I was 4ish.  I remember red/purple shag carpet and our cat playing in the bathroom sinks.  But most of all I remember my Grandpa playing "dress-up" with me - he'd take me on dates...  Too cute.  I have pictures of some of those moments with him.  Priceless.
(Ha ha ha.  See that typeboard in the background?  I have one just like it in my living room...)
(Grandma, me, and Grandpa - chillin' in Sycamore)

3.  We moved to a little white house, on a brick road in Ohio, and lived there til I was about to start 6th grade.  I loved a lot about this house:  it had a front porch swing, tire swing and sandbox in the backyard, my own room, bunkbeds...  What seemed like a HUGE kitchen to "ice-skate" and dance around in.  A screened-in back porch.  Heat vents in the floor (awesome to stand on in your nightgown on cold winter mornings!).  A fireplace in the living room - perfect at Christmas time.  Lots of kids on the street!
(The kids on our street: Me, Melissa, Jacilyn, Brian, Jamie, and Jenny)
(A perfect Saturday morning - bunny slippers, flannel nightgowns, Care Bears, and sitting on the heater with my little sis, Emily.  Best spot in the house!)
(A picture-perfect Christmas on Kibler Ave.)

4.  Next was a townhome in Southern California.  I got to decorate my own bedroom here - a peach and sea-green color scheme, a new full-size bed, and pictures of teen heart-throbs on the walls!  Our kitchen windows were often visited by hummingbirds, and we had a community pool where you could see the fireworks display at Disneyland!  We only lived here for about a year and a half - so one of the best parts about it, was getting to do all kinds of cool things in California (beaches, sea-side towns, Disneyland, Universal Studios, etc, etc.).  We affectionately refer to this time as a very long family vacation!
(Our porch...  complete with pool toys in the background!  Pretty sure this was a "first day of school" picture...)
(One of the cool parts of living in California for a brief time - weekend afternoons at the ocean.)

5. We briefly lived in a little townhome when we moved back to Minnesota...  The best thing about that one?  My sister and I shared the master bedroom  - the only time I would have a tv in my room!
(Not many pictures here...  We only lived here for about 4 months.)

6.  Finally, when I was in 8th grade, we moved into my family home.  It's gone through many changes over the last 20 years - but it's felt like home the whole time!  The kitchen is small and cozy - with a round oak table that has made it through generations of my dad's family.  I love that table and all the stories that go along wth it!    Our dining room has a table that can fit the whole family - including the husbands and boyfriends!  As the family grew - it just became cozier.  The giant fireplace in the living room has always been a focal point of warmth and festivities...  I can't imagine the number of family photos taken in front of that fireplace!  Several years ago, a 4-season porch was added onto the house - a favorite place for the whole family!  The perfect place to wrap up in a blanket and watch a movie or read a book - most of the time whoever you're looking for wll be found out there.  And of course, there's the big yard and beautiful flowers... and the neighbors.  This street has been a blessing to my family - full of friends that look out for each other and have fun together!
(Games around the ol' kitchen table - Kayla, Karlin, and Emily)
(A nap in the porch on Christmas Day...  Perfect.)
(Another family photo in front of the fireplace!  Me, Emily, Grandma, Trent, Kayla, and Jane)

7.  The dorms.  Throughout college I had 3 different dorm rooms - and loved each of them.  I had the coziest - by far - of the dorm rooms in my building!  My walls were covered with art, I had real plants, the room was decorated with warm, rich colors...  The room was always pretty clean and ready for company - so it became a place for people to hang out.  I loved my dorm rooms for their inviting feeling...  At the end of a long day, I just wanted to go back to my room - where all was right with the world.

8.  My first apartment after college never really attained the coziness-factor.  Maybe that's why I moved after only 9 months.  It was nice...  White walls, beige carpet, small square rooms...  But boring.  It felt empty and cold.  (Not to mention I was the youngest person in the building by 50 years and in order to afford living there, I did all the mowing, cleaning, and shoveling...  Yuck.)
(No pics here...  No inspiration...)

9.  Moving on.  My next apartment - NOT boring!  It was in the upstairs of an old house on the main street of the small town in Wisconsin where I had my first youth director job.  The walls of the living/kitchen area - bright, Crayola green!  Original wood floors.  Windows that looked out at a wetland area - full of birds and wildlife.  The bathroom had red floors and a blue tub and sink...  The bedroom had old-lady blue wall-paper paneling and dark brown paneling...  Oh!  And blue shag carpet.  Ha ha ha.  I loved the quirkiness - and I was able to decorate it in a way that was whimsical and fun.  I loved it.  Once again, I had a place to come home to that I could just be myself in.

10.  The next move was to Illinois, where I would move into the apartment that my husband had been living in for a year (his bachelor pad).  Oh dear.  Cozy?  It got there.  Overstuffed loveseats, tapestries on the walls, candles, rugs...  Eventually the warmth crept into another generic apartment.  My favorite part?  We had a balcony that overlooked the pool and the river.  A wonderful place to sit in the evenings - many Scrabble games were played on that deck by candlelight!
(Still looking for a picture of this one...)

11.  Next was the first house we would live in - and be able to decorate however we wanted!  It was a house that probably should have been torn down, but the park district that my hubby worked for had bought it (with the intention of making it into a parking lot in the future)...  For now they wanted it cleaned up, renovated, and ready to rent out.  They gave us a budget to work with, and extremely low rent - and we went to work!  We tore out dirty shag carpets and refinished wood floors, we painted at least 2 coats of primer and 3 coats of paint on every wall and ceiling in the house to make up for the decades of smoke residue left behind, we laid carpet in one room and floor tiles in two others, we painted all of our kitchen cabinets (bright orange and yellow!) and replaced all the hardware, we bought a new fridge and stove, we wallpapered in the bathroom and had a shower installed, etc etc etc.  It was a LOT of work in a very short amount of time!  But I have to say - I LOVED the sunroom: bright yellow walls, tons of windows, our tiny little bistro table... It was lovely.  And I LOVED our kitchen - bright and cheerful!  It was a fun little place to kick-start our married life - and because it was a house with a yard - this was the place that our little puppy first called home.  I have to say, that was the best part of the house - playing with a new puppy in the yard!

(My cheery kitchen - loved it!)
(The hubby picked this color...  I thought he was insane...  But I really liked it!)
(My little Bailey when she first came home.  Adorable!)

12.  We're getting close!  Less than a year after moving into the Fraser Ave. house, I took a job in Minnesota... and we were on the road again.  We moved into a temporary little apartment in a quiet community...  Nothing spectacular about that apartment, except the giant screened-in porch.  I loved that.  Breakfasts, dinners, reading, Scrabble games, wine sipping, and long conversations all happened in that porch.  (And we could walk from this apartment to one of our favorite cafes - Jensens.  Yum-o.)
(Breakfast with our friend, Mark, in our little porch.)

13.  Finally!  At age 28, after 2 years of marriage, we bought our first home.  A nice townhome that we got to help build.  We got to pick out everything from carpet to light fixtures, molding to appliances, paint colors to doorknobs.  So fun!  Our house now is everything we've hoped for - warm, cozy, inviting - a sanctuary from the world around us.  My favorite part?  The kitchen!  I love to cook and trying new recipes - and it's so much easier when you have space and good equipment!  I also love our loft area (family room) - between the magic couch and the breezes coming through the windows - it's the perfect place to kick back in warm or cool weather.
(The living room...)
(My kitchen...)
(The nature area in our neighborhood - a perfect place for evening walks!)

So there you have it!  The places I have called home so far - and what I found lovely and cozy about them!  I've been blessed my whole life with warmth and joy in the places I've lived...


Monday, September 6, 2010

Comfort

"How do you define comfort?  List five things that represent comfort to you."
--Sarah Ban Breathnach, "Something More"

Hmmm...  Comfort is feeling free to be me - quirks and all.  Comfort is not trying to be someone else or impress someone else.  It is rest and relaxation.  Enjoying life for what it is.

1.  It's pajamas.  Really soft, slightly baggy, colorful, fun pajamas.  (With slippers and a robe if I'm lucky.)
2.  It's a blanket to curl up in.  (Even in the summer when I take a nap, I often grab a blanket to cuddle with...  The hubby asks me if I'm cold.  I respond, "nope.  It's a comfort-thing.")
3.  It's flip-flops.  I love being able to kick off my shoes in the grass or under my desk!
4.  It's my husband telling me I'm cute or beautiful when I'm sick, tired, or am having a bad day.
5.  It's having dessert with a friend - telling stories, laughing, crying, and not judging one another for that last bite of triple fudge cake...

What a fun thing to think about...  What are your five?

Things I am thankful for today:

1.  Labor Day - a day off.
2.  Irish coffees for breakfast.
3.  My camera got dropped off to get fixed...  (It had a little accident this weekend...  No more pictures on the blog til I get it back..)
4.  Lunch at Sea Salt with the Laughing Waters Bluegrass Festival in the background.
5.  The hubby wore his "my wife rocks" t-shirt.  (We always get fun comments when we wear those shirts!)
6.  How I Met Your Mother.  So funny.
7.  A cool, rainy day - perfect for books and napping.
8.  Leftover mashed potatoes.  Delish!
9.  A comfortable life.
10.  The fact that I can honestly say that I like myself.  Imagine that!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

No More Complaining

"There will always be plenty of whining to go around.  Plenty of angry bitterness.  Plenty of guilt trips and more than enough nagging and wheedling.  Why bother to add your voice to that negative chorus?

"...let's choose to leave that particular melody to someone else, at least for today.  Then maybe tomorrow it'll be easier not to join in and sing along, and the day after that maybe we'll start up our own tune of gratitude, or inspiration, or determination."
--Mina Parker, "Less is More"

A good reminder.  Nothing - and nobody - is perfect.  So let's not complain and enjoy the good!

Things I am thankful for today:

1.  A fun morning at church.
2.  The people at my church - love them.
3.  Spending some time with Kayla and my parents.
4.  Another beautiful, cool day. 
5.  The hubby making me lunch.
6.  A long nap.
7.  Patience.
8.  An amazing dinner on the grill - steaks and cedar-planked mashed potatoes!  Mmmmm...
9.  An evening of board games with Mark and Lindsey.  So fun.  (I even got a humdinger right in Cranium!  That never happens!)
10.  Sipping wine by candlelight with the hubby after everyone else went to bed.  Very nice.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Photo Hunt: Hot

Two Hotties at the Harborview Cafe in Pepin, WI.

Today we slept in, had strawberry empanadas for breakfast...

Then... drove down the Wisconsin side of the St. Croix River - through towns like Maiden Rock, Stockholm, and Pepin.  Did some sight-seeing, shopping, and eating(!)...  Enjoyed the beautiful crisp, cool, sunny day.  Had lunch at the Harborview Cafe...

Stopped at the Nelson Creamery for ice cream... and started the long drive back on the Minnesota side.  A great way to spend a day with friends!

We came home and took some naps (yes, we're old).  Woke up, got ready for a night out - and headed downtown!

We spent the evening at Kieran's Irish Pub listening to the Reverse Cowboys.  Hilarious.  They were so talented - and so fun.  Loved it.

Lots of laughs and fun - a good night out.  Thanks, Mark and Lindsey!

Things I am thankful for today:

1.  A relaxed, easy-going morning.
2.  A scenic drive on a gorgeous day.
3.  Seeing llamas!
4.  The town of Stockholm.  So cute.
5.  Pigs that fly.
6.  A magnet for a friend.
7.  Lasagna.
8.  Black and Tans.
9.  Reverse Cowboys band.
10.  Mark's jokes and stories.

Friday, September 3, 2010

Friday Fave Five - September 3rd


Time for a moment to look back on the week and record five of my favorite things this week!  What made me laugh, smile or feel blessed?

1.  A(nother!) visit from my friend Amanda.  A fun weekend of touring the Twin Cities: Minnehaha Falls, Sea Salt, Sebastion Joe's Ice Cream, Lake Harriet Bandshell, The Happy Gnome....  So much fun!


2.  The last Monday of the summer shared with Em and Elly!  They came for one last day at the pool before it closes for the season...  So fun.


3.  The State Fair with the hubby and friends, Jill and Kevin.  Food, Music, and Fun.  Gotta love it!


4.  Dragging the hubby out for pizza at Punch Pizza - I've been craving this pizza since my friend, Andrea, visited from New York earlier this summer!  It's so good...


5.  Signing up for Donald Miller's "Living a Better Story" Seminar in Portland - and having all the pieces fall into place so easily!  Have you ever had something that you just knew you were supposed to do?  This is very unlike me to go...  But I'm so excited!

Things I am thankful for today:

1.  A very clean house - ready for guests!
2.  The hubby coming home early.
3.  A fridge and cupboards full of yumminess.
4.  The dog and hubby awaiting Mark's visit.

5.  Mark and Lindsey arriving safely.
6.  Bailey, our dog, wanting so bad to play with Benji (their bunny).  So cute.
7.  San Pedro Cafe with Mark and Lindsey.  (Coconut Scallop Pasta - my all time favorite dish.)

8.  The Happy Gnome - I tried a new beer that was delish!  Now...  If I could only remember the name...
9.  Watching a movie in bed after everyone else went to bed early - thank God for netflix and a laptop!
10.  A good night's sleep...

Thursday, September 2, 2010

State Fair!

Another visit to the "Great Minnesota Get-Together."  To think - three years ago, I had never been.  Now I've been all three years!

Foods eaten this year (and let me preface this with - the hubby and I share everything!):
Corn dog (not pronto pup - corn dogs are so much better!)
Mac and cheese on a stick (yes - deep fried chunks of mac and cheese.)
Mashed potatoes on a stick (again - fried and speared)
Cheese curds
S'more on a stick (fried, speared)
Beers
Sweet Martha's cookies to take home

As you can see, I save up my year's allowance of fried food for one evening a year!  (And it's totally worth it!)  Favorites this year?  Mashed potatoes and cheese curds.  Yum.

While we were walking the fairgrounds - and when we got to the farthest corner of the fair - it started POURING rain!  We ducked into the "Peace" store - a tent full of tye-dye and peace signs - so "groovy."  While standing there, watching the storm pass us by - a rainbow appeared!  Beautiful!


After stuffing our faces, we found the Leinie's Lodge Bandshell to watch the band "Trampled By Turtles."  I've been wanting to see them for awhile (who wouldn't with a name like that?!).  And they were awesome!  It's really fast, energetic bluegrass - so FUN!  We were joined by our friends, Kevin and Jill, and had a great night!

3rd visit to the Fair - Success.

Things I am thankful for today:

1.  A good day at work - so much to get done!
2.  Express buses to the State Fair - makes everything so easy!
3.  One day of the year to pig out on junk food!
4.  Maalox.
5.  Rainbows.
6.  A hubby who likes to people-watch as much as me!
7.  Fun music!
8.  A less-crowded day at the fair - less chance of a panic attack.  Phew!
9.  Cooler weather.
10.  Fireworks!  A great way to end the night!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Yummy Wednesday - Banana Bread

So, last week I had some overly ripe bananas to use up... and I couldn't find my usual banana bread recipes...  So, I looked in my good 'ol Church Cookbook and found one that looked good - and oh boy!  Was it!  The hubby and I instantly said this was our favorite banana bread.  And one of his co-workers said he liked it best 'because it didn't have any of that "extra stuff" (We leave out the nuts...).'  Yep.  Just good, sweet, moist banana bread.  Delish!


Banana Bread
a recipe by Betsy Evans, found in the Eden Prairie United Methodist Church Cookbook
(Thanks for sharing, Betsy!)

You'll need:
3/4 cup softened butter
1 1/2 cup sugar
2 eggs, beaten
1 tsp vanilla
1 1/2 cup mashed bananas
2 cups flour
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp salt
1/2 cup buttermilk
1/2 cup chopped nuts (if you like that sort of thing!)

To Make:
1.  Cream butter and sugar in mixer bowl until fluffy.
2.  Add beaten eggs and vanilla and mix well.
3.  Combine in another bowl: the flour, baking soda and salt.
4.  Add the flour mixture to the banana mixture alternating with the buttermilk.
5.  Fold in nuts last.
6.  Grease and flour 2 (7 3/8 x 3 5/8") pans.  Pour batter evenly into pans.
7.  Bake at 350 degrees for approximately 35 to 40 minutes.

Enjoy!

Today I am thankful for:

1.  Open windows.
2.  Excedrin.
3.  Understanding people in my life.
4.  Leftovers.
5.  Aveda moisturizer.
6.  Seeing the Jack Brass Band on the news...  Ha ha ha.
7.  Inspiring reads.
8.  A cool front!
9.  New food magazines...  New recipes!
10.  Foot rubs.
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