Life is good... But the best is yet to come!

Merry Christmas!

2011-12-24T00:07:00.001-06:00

Ahhh... Dear friends and family, I'm so sorry I haven't been here lately. My computer died in September, and I've been "making do" with some old relics that don't quite have the toys that I'm accustomed to for my photos and blogging... So, I've taken an extended break from this place. BUT, hopefully, after the holidays we will be getting a new computer and I can get my blogging mojo back!

In the meantime, I couldn't not post a Christmas letter! So here goes:

Well, it's Christmas Eve Eve. (Smile.) And I'm sitting on the couch, Christmas lights lit, a fire in the fireplace, a poodle cuddled next to me, and my Christmas pjs keeping me warm and cozy! I've already had a glass of egg nog, and am looking at our tree with thankfulness in my heart.

It's been another wonderful year.

Mike and I are still loving life in Minnesota, and loving our life together! I can't believe we've been married 8 years (and together 12!). Everyday is a blessing to my life - laughing together, exploring new places, and learning as we go. It may be cliche, but I really feel I married my best friend - and couldn't ask for anything more.

My job is going well - and as busy as ever! Our church merged with a smaller church this fall and we have gained another 80+ members! Such fun to get to know these new faces and personalities! (And such a challenge for our ministries to keep up!) Our whole church feels really blessed to be healthy and growing - and excited as we look forward to what comes next...

And of course, we've been squeezing in lots of fun with family and friends!
**Lots of visits with our god-daughter and her family - especially making crafts and eating cookies! (And a fun day at the zoo!)

**We got to see Mike's sister, Kerry, get married, buy a house, and have a baby - all in one year! It's been so fun celebrating with her and the family! (This is Gillian and her daddy - just a couple of weeks ago! How cute are they?!)

**Saw a few concerts this year: Civil Wars, Corey Chisel and the Wandering Sons, G Love and Special Sauce, Fitz and the Tantrums, Michael Franti and Spearhead, Amos Lee, Ray LaMontagne
**Enjoyed Mike's nephew, Brandon, visiting over his Spring Break for the second year - so fun! (The boys enjoyed a day at the skate park... Uffda!)

**The Huck (my Dad's side) Reunion was in Colorado last June. It was such a wonderful few days - seeing family I hadn't seen in years(!), and getting to know the cousins that are my age. Mike and I had a great time exploring beautiful places (mostly Denver and near Vail, CO) and spending time with some entertaining family! We loved it. (Dad and I in Vail, at the top of a gondola ride!)

**Got to go on my second mission trip to Rosebud Reservation in Mission, South Dakota. Always a humbling and thought-provoking trip - and a joy to travel with the ladies from my church. (Our fun day was spent at Mount Rushmore and Bear Country USA! Too fun.)

**Spent a weekend in Wisconsin with Mike's sister, Shelly, and her family. All kinds of trouble to get into there! Here's Mike, his niece and nephew - playing nerf tag... Trouble, I tell ya!

**Went sky-diving again (after an 11 year break)! Our local food shelf/clothes closet/many other services for the underprivileged, Neighbor's Inc, held a fundraiser for their new building - get people to sponsor you if you jump out of a plane. So, of course I did! Ha! It was a blast - and I hope to do it again this May!

**Mike and I had a wonderful vacation out West this summer. We flew into Seattle, drove through Olympia National Park in Washington, and then down the Oregon coast, into Portland, and then back down the Pacific Coast Highway - all the way to San Diego! It was a whirlwind trip - only 10 days - but so worth it! Great memories!

**We began to buy our meat "straight from the farm" through True Cost Farms. It's been really eye-opening learning about the practices of factory farms vs sustainable, humane farming. And it's really intriguing how different the meat tastes! We're loving the experimenting with recipes! (And we're still loving shopping at the farmers' markets during the summer, picking berries at local farms, and doing our own canning - there's just nothing like fresh food in the dead of winter!)
**We were able to sneak in two trips to Minnesota's North Shore this fall - near Grand Marais. If there is any place we love to get away to, this is it! So relaxing and beautiful! (On one of the trips, we went into Canada and walked across Canada's longest suspension bridge - just for the heck of it!)

**My sister, Emily, and her family visited Minnesota in August - what a wonderful treat! My niece, Fin, is almost four years old - and they're expecting a little brother for her anyday now (actually, the due date was today! I have my phone with me as I type!).
**My other sister, Kayla, transferred to the University of Minnesota-Duluth this year. Emily, Fin, and I got to join the caravan in moving her up there this fall. A busy day - but the first time all three sisters moved one into the dorms!

**Mike and I found a new hobby - Beer. Sounds funny, but very true! You'd be amazed at how complex and interesting the brewing process can be! We go to tastings every month, have been to beer festivals, toured the Surly Brewery, taste craft brews every chance we get, AND Mike's going to be brewing his own batch this year! (Go ahead, make fun... I'm becoming a "beer connoisseur.")

I guess that's our year in a nutshell. We were laughing at the dog the other night - and I realized, not a day goes by at our house without something to make us bust out laughing. Even on those days when life is trying to get us down - we can always come home and find peace and love and joy.

As I look forward to tomorrow and all the festivities of Christmas - I think it's a day when we all come home. Home to family and friends, home to faith, home to love, home to generosity - home to all that is good in the world.

Merry Christmas, friends! And may the peace, love, and joy of the season find you wherever you may be this season!

Love,
Megs

Rosebud Mission Trip 2011

2011-07-18T21:06:00.000-05:00

Another week spent at Rosebud Indian Reservation in Mission, SD, with a wonderful group of women from church - Wonderful, exhausting, enlightening, fun, and beautiful. Love these trips!

Here's a quick recap of our week with Tree of Life Ministry:

Sunday: Hope in the car at 8am and head out! The drive was about 8 hours... with a quick detour in Mitchell, SD, for lunch. (Tell me again - how did we get lost in Mitchell, see half the town, and NEVER caught a glimpse of the Corn Palace?!) We got to Mission about 5pm, got settled into our little red house, had a delicious dinner, attended orientation, and enjoyed some time as a small group talking about our day and expectations for the week. Bed time was early as we anticipated what the week would bring!

(Home sweet home, for the week.)

(Devotions as a group every night. We agreed to journal about our experiences as we watched for God throughout the week.)

Monday: Devotions in the yard with the other teams (about 30 of us) - Russell was spot-on as always. Full of wonderful lessons and uplifting stories of the changes that are happening. He's a wonderful bridge between the cultures (bringing joy and friendship, respect and dignity to all he works with)! I ended up working in the warehouse all week with Beth and Lydia. We stocked store shelves, loaded trucks and delivered goods around town, unloaded deliveries, and sorted through boxes upon boxes of products... Sounds like a boring day, but there's always stuff to do! In the evening, we went to hear Dolores Kills In Water do a presentation about the artifacts she has collected over the years (many going back multiple generations in her family). She's in her late 80's and continues to do the presentations in order to teach people about the strength and beauty of her culture (especially the women). It was an honor to sit a listen to her stories...

(Russell delivering his morning lesson and devotion out in the back yard - a beauitful morning!)

(The artifacts we got to learn about - they all travel in a couple of suitcases... She's like "Mary Poppins!")

(Delores Kills In Water - one spunky, fascinating woman.)

Tuesday: Back to the warehouse! Stocking (the never ending supply of) Kool-Aid Jammers, sorting Wal-Mart returns (make-up, hair products, fake nails, skin care, etc), delivering hand sanitizer to businesses around town and books to the local library. Hard work - but fun people to work with, and starting to get to know some of the people who always work in the shop and warehouse. In the evening, we got to peruse local crafts and art at an art fair and then see a presentation by Steve Tamayo and his family about the history of the arts of the Lakota Sioux. (I met him last year and was fascinated by him... It was fun to see him again!) His whole family are experts in the native traditional arts - like textiles, dress-making, buffalo hide tanning, headdress making, etc, etc. He's the person the Smithsonion Museum calls when they need help with Native American artifacts. Pretty cool, huh? (We also got to play some "handgames" while we were waiting for the other group. It's pretty much a game of guessing and trickery... It's perfect for the mischievious. I love it - and Steve loves to tease me during it. Next year, I'll be ready for him!)

(If I ever see another Kool-Aid Jammer... it will be too soon!)

(The arts and crafts fair - fun stuff! I bought a necklace from Floyd - the same person I bought earrings from last year. He seemed shocked that I remembered him and appreciated his stuff - as well as his beautiful paintings!)

(Beth and Lydia - too cute!)

(Hand Games! Lydia and Laura are hiding the "bones.")

(Then, the opponents guess which hand it's in - by her smile, we probably guessed wrong...)

(These are what you're trying to win - once you have all of them, your team wins! It can take forever!)

(My guess is, Steve is giving my team a hard time here... He's very sneaky, that Steve.)

(All items made by Steve and his family - beautiful craftsmanship!)

Wednesday: Our day off! We headed out to Mount Rushmore, Bear Country USA, lunch in Keystone, and dinner at Wall Drug. A very fun and lively day!

(Carly, Corrine, Laura, Lydia, Beth, and I at Mount Rushmore!)

(Keystone, SD - got our tourist-y fresh taffy here!)

(Bear Country USA - Lydia begged to go here... I'm glad we did! Cheesy? Yes. But totally fun!)

(The ride back to Rosebud... A beautiful evening!)

Thursday: The warehouse work never ceases. We were back again - every time we think we've got the warehouse emptied and organized, more shipments come in! It's literally never-ending. But for a task-oriented person like me - it's all good! Today, the people we worked with started to loosen up a little. We started getting to know them, and they us. We had a lot of fun joking around and enjoying each other's company. But it was HOT! Being in the warehouse, we took lots of breaks so that we wouldn't overheat. We worked hard to finish a little early - it was a tough one. In the evening, a few of us (Laura, Corrine, and I) went to a sweat lodge ceremony. It was shortened due to the heat and because another group was doing one right after us... But it was still cool. Chief Duane Hollow Horn Bear was our leader again this year. I love the stories he tells and the values he shares with us. This year especially, his family is dealing with a huge loss - and he and his wife seemed to quietly bring that to the sweat lodge... Really, it's a prayer circle - a beautiful, powerful way to commune with God. And it's a gift to share in that.

(Some of the shelves we help to keep stocked.)

(The clothes closet - always a job in progress. As soon as a box is emptied, the stuff is taken out to the store - it's never ending!)

(The warehouse... after we emptied it once... Yowzers.)

(Stunning sunsets...)

Friday: Our last day of work - and another sweltering hot one! I busted my butt trying to accomplish as much as I could on this last day... And about 2pm I lost all steam. I was ready to be done. And of course, a 15 passenger van pulls up - with no seats in it - it's just piled floor to ceiling with bedding, donated from a church! We started unloading... A huge job in the heat! But by the time we were done, fruit smoothies were waiting for us inside! I tell ya - that made my day! It's funny, in the midst of the heat - this was probably my favorite day. We had worked with Adrian, John, Teresa, and Ray all week - but today we really started seeing each other's worlds and sharing bits of our lives with one another. Adrian kept asking me if I really worked for a church...? Seriously? He was trying to feel out if I could respect his tradtional beliefs while I was Christian - we came to the conclusion that we were probably both worshipping the same great Creator, just in different ways. And he walked away with a big smile at that! John shared stories about his little daughter. Teresa made us laugh everyday - all while dealing with cancer herself and looking after everyone in her community with such nurture and devotion. And Ray just made us smile - she's revamped this center into a community gathering place full of laughter and commaraderie that wasn't there last year. It was fun to see her living out her gifts and talents in such a wonderful way! It was hard to say good-bye this year... Such a special community.

(John and Adrian - good guys.)

(Lydia, Beth, and Teresa - a special lady in our hearts.)

(Ray - can't wait to see what her energy, passion, and creativity will do with the Welcome Center by next year!)

(I predicted we'd stock the last Jammers by noon on Friday. Lydia was overjoyed to place the last case at 11:59am!)

Saturday: We got up early, made sure the house was cleaned up, our bags were packed, and we hit the road! An uneventful ride home - just what we needed. Time to think back over the week, reflect, and process. It was a good one! God was at work all around us - spreading grace and joy. I can't wait to visit again next year!

(And there you have it - a "darn tootin'" good trip! Right, Lydia?)

A Little Fun

2011-07-16T21:10:00.000-05:00

Summer's flying by! Just a couple of fun activities...

A drive-in movie... ("Transformers" and "Super 8")

(A little pre-movie entertainment. That guy is on a little motorized chair with a propellor. We see him all over town in the summer!)

(Waiting for the sun to set...)

(Gorgeous night!)

Fourth of July in Hudson, WI...

(It's a busy place...)

(Bailey got to come! She's happy as can be...)

(These little girls were as festive as can be! Lit up streamers coming off their headbands, fun red, white, and blue dresses - they were having the "best night ever!")

The "real" Fourth of July in Minneapolis...

(Watching "The Billy Johnson Roadshow" on St. Anthony Main.)

(A perfect day for lunch on Aster Cafe's patio!)

(The scenery's a little different from Hudson...)

(My buddy! I see this guy at least once a summer - always at a music festival, always wearing the same outfit, always smiling and dancing, happy as can be. My summer would not be complete if I didn't run into him somewhere...)

(Enjoying the skyline as we wait for fireworks - such a great day!)

A delicious new recipe...

(And a beautiful rainbow...)

A concert in Mears Park, St. Paul...

A morning at the MN Zoo with some of my favorite people (Em, Elly, and Sam)...

(Sam, my buddy.)

(We were mesmerized by the giant aquarium...)

(I believe Elly and I were watching the otters under water. Always entertaining!)

(What a great mom! Sacrificing a run through the sprinklers on a hot day!)

(That's Elly. She's a pretty darn cool kid.)

And two great nights at the Basillica Block Party...

(Night One - G Love and Special Sauce, and...

Fitz and the Tantrums, and...

Michael Franti and Spearhead! Best night of music I've been to in a long time! So fun!)

**These three pictures are courtesy of Google Images.

(Night Two - Amos Lee, and...

His special guest, "Angel" - hilarious! And...

Ray LaMontagne and the Pariah Dogs. Awesome night.)

It's been a great summer so far... and we're only half way!!!

Coming Home...

2011-06-26T23:17:00.000-05:00

Ah, sad day. Time to head home.

We had our farewell breakfast with everyone this morning - lots of hugs and "See ya in two years!" I hope so - I really do!

Then, Mom and Dad and Mike and I crammed into their little car and began the drive back to Denver. We took a couple of side roads... Driving through Loveland Pass (there were still skiers at Arapahoe Basin!), driving through Red Rocks, and through the towns of Evergreen and Morrison... A beautiful drive.

(You can't see the specks in this picture... But there are skiers on that mountain!)

(Arapahoe Basin - slopes are open!)

(Lunch in the town of Morrison, near Red Rocks. Beso Latina - best sweet potato fries EVER!)

Then, to the airport we went. Once again, an uneventful trip home. And since all went smoothly, we drove out to my parents' house to pick up our dog first thing. Wow, was she excited!

We got home around 10:30pm... The house was quiet and a nice breeze was coming in. As I crawled into bed, I have to admit, it was very nice to be home...

But I may be dreaming of Colorado for awhile...

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Safe travel.
2. Beautiful places.
3. Looking forward to the nest reunion!
4. A chat with my sister, on the phone, at the airport.
5. Pictures of my grandparents when they were younger than I am now - very fun!
6. So many interesting people in our family...
7. Brainstorming possibilities for our next vacation...
8. Picking up our dog - lots of kisses!
9. Kayla's surprised text at what we paid her... Kind of fun.
10. Crawling into our own bed with clean sheets... So nice to be home!

At the Ranch

2011-06-25T23:39:00.001-05:00

Day four!

Uffda. Sleeping in a bit was a must today - but so worth it!

We started the day with breakfast at the condo - with Mom, Dad, cousin David, and his wife Nancy (they're our roomies for the week!). It was a relaxing, unrushed kind of morning.

Then, while Mom went out with some of the other ladies, Dad and Hubby and I headed into Vail for the day. What a unique place! The streets of Vail Village and Lionshead look like little villages in Switzerland! So cute and quaint - full of upscale shops and art galleries, and cafes on every corner.

We managed to take a gondola ride to the top of the mountain - a fun spot with lots of activities for kids! Rock-climbing, trampolines, slack-lining, bean bag games, pony rides, etc. A nice patio and restaurant, and great photo opps! We played for a while, then took the gondola back down the mountain into Lionshead for an art fair.

(The hubby was missing the Jimmy Buffet concert with his sisters this weekend. So he sent this picture to them, with the caption "Fins up from Colorado!")

(Yes, Mike gets comments on that shirt everywhere we go... Too funny!)

(Show off!)

(Can you see the little dot at the top of this picture? That would be a snowball. Something just isn't right about getting snowballs thrown at you on your summer vacation...)

We enjoyed walking through the artist tents (I found one artist I would LOVE to own something by... But alas, I don't think I could ever afford it...). We also found the "maypole" displayed on one of the streets of Lionshead - a colorful, playful, whimsical maypole - commissioned by one of my artist relatives! (Chris Huck's wife, Laurie.) So cool!

By this time, our stomach's were growling... So we headed back into Vail Village and found a little cafe tucked in a little riverside spot... Sapphire, I think, was what it was called. Great tuna steak sandwiches!

Once again, we headed back to the condo - and I took a nap. The sun is intense up here!

Our evening event tonight was at 4 Eagle Ranch - awesome. We headed out to the country to a ranch that has been in operation for decades - with all kinds of animals! Horses, cows, a buffalo, llamas, goats, prairie dogs, chickens, etc. Too fun! We got a wagon ride around the property with "Tink" as our storyteller and driver - hilarious!

("Tink")

(A wagon-full of Hucks!)

(And MORE Hucks!)

Then we headed back to the buildings for dinner, country western dancing, cattle-roping practice, campfires, smores, and more visiting. It was picturesque and a wonderful place to have a little fun.

(I could handle this view from my porch...)

(Little Owen... too cute!)

(Cousin Alex - he planned and organized this reunion with the help of his wife and kids. Awesome!)

(Alex's wife, Pat, blushing as we all sing 'Happy Birthday!')

(A little country western dancing.)

(Such serious conversations...)

(Larry - this guy makes everyone laugh.)

(Ha ha ha. Jenny doesn't look too sure of Mike's marshmallow-roasting ability...)

(But I can attest - he's a great marshmallow roaster!)

(Apparently, it runs in the family - look at Brian's perfectly roasted marshmallow!)

(Little Owen was "roping" his dad in the yard - very joyful giggles coming from that little game!)

And the sunset was spectacular!

Once back at the condo, the hubby and I went for a late night walk... The stars are amazing here!

I'm realizing we're going home tomorrow... and don't want our vacation to end. Not yet.

Things I am thankful for:

1. Humidifiers.
2. Art - it brightens the world.
3. Sidewalk cafes on sunny days.
4. Watching dogs playing in the river.
5. Kayla - for taking care of my dog!
6. Little kids in overalls.
7. "Tink" - I bet he has a fascinating story!
8. Mac and cheese.
9. Campfires.
10. Starry nights.

Beauty

2011-06-24T23:49:00.001-05:00

Day Three of our Colorado vacation!

Our big adventure for today was a visit to Sylvan Lake State Park. Can I just say - Stunningly beautiful?! It's tucked back on gravel roads a few miles from the town of Eagle... It must be just far enough in that many people don't know about it, because there certainly weren't many people there - which made for the perfect spot for our Reunion Picnic!

We had a pretty little lake, surrounded by mountains - all to ourselves! So 55 of us had our picnic lunches, hiked around the lake, did a little canoing and kayaking, and just enjoyed the day!

(Mom and Dad)

(Alex, Josh, and Owen)

(Owen, Pat, Kathy, and Jenny)

(Jason - the camera man)

(Dad, the canoe master)

Later, we all went back to the condos for an afternoon rest - all that dry air and warm sun can wear a girl out!

And in the evening, we had an informal dinner at another cousin's condo... Moe's BBQ catered the dinner - YUM! Generations were looking at pictures of reunions gone by, young adults were getting to know one another, little kids running around and playing... More laughter and stories. So fun!

And yes, later that evening, some of us younger cousins went down into town for a little mischievious fun. Finnegan's Wake Pub was the place to be - a bit of a rough, local hangout - but fun nonetheless! A few beers, a round of Irish car bombs, some bean bag tossing... Way too many laughs for people who basically just met - but oh so fun! Good stories for future reunions... That's for sure!

(Dan, Ryan, and Brendan - I'm pretty sure they are the reason the next picture happened...)

(Irish car bombs...)

(Jason and his new bride, Ginna)

(Ginna and Josh. Josh is my new best friend. For those of you who knew me growing up - He's visited the Gorilla sanctuary in Rwanda!!!! Crazy.)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Loving life.
2. Hiking the small, pretty lake.
3. Mule deer - so dopey looking!
4. Sunny days.
5. Canoing with my dad - I think for the first time!
6. Mike and I figuring out the kayak - and then making progress.
7. A nice, long nap.
8. Larry's mischievious stories.
9. A fun night out.
10. 2am bedtime - had to have at least one of these on vacation!

On Our Way!

2011-06-23T23:46:00.001-05:00

Day two of vacation!

This morning, we woke up and packed, thinking we'd go for a walk before my parents would be picking us up at 11am. But true to form, Dad showed up hours early! Ha ha ha. So we enjoyed a lovely morning on the hotel patio, sipping lattes, and talking about all the things we were looking forward to at the Huck Family Reunion. (Gotta say, if this was typical weather, then I LOVED my Denver morning!)

Mom and our close family friend, Rhonda, showed up around 11am. We packed up the car and headed out to an early lunch at the Denver Biscuit Company. (All the sandwiches were made on biscuits! I had pulled pork and slaw - on a biscuit - YUM!) We chatted and had a fun lunch, then Rhonda headed back to Colorado Springs and my parents and hubby and I got on the road to Avon, Colorado for the reunion.

(Rhonda, Mom, and Dad)

It was such a pretty drive through the mountains and towns - and tunnels through the mountains! We arrived at Beaver Creek Resort in the afternoon with plenty of time to explore, unpack, and relax before the first family reunion event.

(The drive - it was like being a kid again. Back seat, suitcase between me and the hubby...)

(The view from our room - Not bad!)

Our first family "mixer" was at the poolside - appetizers, sandwiches, and drinks. It was so fun to see everyone again - some I saw as recently as 4 years ago, others were at least 20 years ago! We re-introduced each other, heard about each other's lives, and had some fun laughs talking about past reunions. It's funny, for as awkward and shy as I usually feel - I did pretty good here! (It helps to know everyone's family, right?) It was a beautiful night, in a beautiful setting - especially when the sun started setting behind the mountains... Gorgeous.

When everyone started leaving the get-together, it was only 8pm... The hubby and I looked at each other like, "Really?! Now what?!" Fortunately, we hitched a ride with some cousins back to the end of the resort where we were staying, and ended up going to their condo for an hour or so. It was so fun catching up with two of my cousins (Jason and Jenny - whom I hadn't seen in 20 years!) and their spouses and parents. There were a lot of laughs and "remember when...?" moments. Very fun. So cool to reconnect after all this time.

When the hubby and I finally walked back to our condo, we both said aloud how glad we were that we made the effort to come to the reunion this year... And this was only Day One!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Old friends.
2. Beautiful weather!
3. Mountains!
4. I saw an elk today!
5. Reconnecting.
6. Meeting new cousins and spouses of cousins.
7. Patience.
8. Confidence.
9. Laughter.
10. Memories.

A Night in Denver

2011-06-22T23:01:00.001-05:00

Day one of our vacation!

Since our flight didn't leave til afternoon, we had a lovely morning sleeping in and taking our time... We were packed the night before and ready to go - and while it was relaxing, I think we were both chomping at the bit to get on the road!

At the airport, I had a funny experience. We were sitting at our gate, with a half hour to go, and I was playing on my phone, looking at Facebook. I noticed one of my ex-boyfriends, from my college years, was also posting on Facebook from an airport... We starting messaging back and forth and surprise(!) we were in the same airport - so we met up. Ha ha ha. My hubby got to meet my ex. Then our flight got delayed, so we ended up chatting for over an hour. I thought it was fun - I'm happy to know he is well and has a good life! You just never know what can happen at an airport...

Our flight was uneventful and pleasant - I think I kind of like flying Frontier Airlines... I haven't had any problems with them yet! AND they serve warm chocolate chip cookies - can't beat that!

When we got to Denver, we took a shuttle to the hotel - with about ten other people going to other hotels... And our flight got in during the early part of rush hour, so that was a bit long - but a great way to see the city before heading to the hotel! Our hotel - The Warwick - was in a quiet neighborhood, close to the fun parts of the city - perfect. And we got upgraded to a suite - beautiful!

(The view from our room... Nice, huh?)

About an hour after checking in, my friend Morgan, and her boyfriend, John, picked us up for dinner. They took us to a fun Mexican restaurant, "Lime." Good food, fun conversation - it was nice being with them for a short time! (It was a work night for them, so after dinner they headed home - I'm so glad they made the time to hang out with us!)

After they left, the hubby and I went for a walk down 16th Street Mall in Denver - so fun! We were worried it would be pretty quiet on a Wednesday night, but that was not the case! Street artists and performers, loud and crazy restaurants and bars, beautiful buildings and parks - we had a lot of fun exploring! (My favorite was the bagpipe player, playing the theme from "Star Wars"!) We ended the evening at the "Yard House," a bustling bar (with a LOT of tap beers!) - great service, fun atmosphere, and a patio outside. A lovely way to end the evening in Denver!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Traveling with the hubby - so fun.
2. Surprises.
3. Good to know an old boyfriend is well.
4. Chocolate chip cookies.
5. Plenty of time to read on the plane.
6. Easy transportation.
7. Being upgraded at the hotel - oooo la la!
8. Time with friends.
9. Exploring.
10. A comfy bed and good night's sleep!

Another Yummy - Brown Butter and Sea Salt Rice Krispie Bars

2011-06-21T23:40:00.000-05:00

Oh, why not?! I made these tonight as a treat for our traveling tomorrow... YUM. The hubby was all smiles!

Brown Butter and Sea Salt Rice Krispie Bars
Pretty sure these were inspired by Smitten Kitchen...

You'll need:
1 stick of unsalted butter
A 10.5 oz bag of marshmallows
6 cups Rice Krispies
1/4 tsp Sea Salt

To Make:
1) In a large pot, over medium-low heat, melt the butter - stirring frequently. (Be sure to melt it slowly - it will be foamy, then begin to turn a nice brown, nutty color.)

2) When the butter is that nutty color, turn off the heat. Mix in the marshmallows, until they're nice and smooth.

3) Add in the Rice Krispies and sea salt. Stir until mixed well.

4) Scrape the Krispie mixture into a greased (or sprayed) 8x8 pan (for thick bars) or 9x12 pan (for thinner bars). Spray some cooking spray on a piece of wax paper, and use to press down on mixture until it is firmly in the pan. (Disgard the wax paper.)

5) Let sit until set.

And ENJOY! Yum. This is for all you "sweet and salty" lovers!

And things I'm thankful for today:

1. Getting everything done.
2. Excedrin.
3. Tornado sirens - even when they wake me up from a nap... It's good to know they're there.
4. Toe nail polish.
5. Packing with the hubby.
6. My books came! Woo-hoo! (Now I have something to read on the plane!)
7. My little sister, Kayla, taking care of my pup this week.
8. Clean sheets.
9. The show, "The Voice."
10. Rice Krispie treats, of course!

Yummy - Just To Be Yummy - Stuffed Jalapenos

2011-06-20T18:01:00.000-05:00

Here's a new favorite recipe... We've been making them since Christmas, and they're quite addicting! I could eat them everyday. Seriously.

But you need to like SPICY. If not, read no further... (And I'm sorry for your loss.)

Stuffed Jalapenos Drizzled with Raspberry Jelly

You'll need:
4 fresh jalapenos
Cream cheese (I use low fat)
4 slices of bacon (I like using center-cut)
Raspberry jelly

To Make:
1) Preheat the oven to 400 degrees.

2) Cut the stem off the jalapenos, and slice in half the longways. Depending on how HOT you like them, use a spoon to dig out the seeds and veins. (With us, sometimes even when we dig out ALL the seeds and veins, the pepper itself is really HOT! So be ready...)

3) Spoon some cream cheese into each pepper half - be generous, it will help with the heat!

4) Cut each slice of bacon in half. Wrap each pepper with half a slice of bacon - and secure with a toothpick. Place wrapped peppers on a broiler pan.

5) Bake for about 10 minutes. Watching to make sure not to over cook.

6) Then, broil for a couple of minutes to crsip the bacon.

7) Remove the peppers from the oven and let cool for a couple of minutes. Drizzle each pepper with raspberry jelly...

Oh dear Lord! Eat, and eat, and eat - and maybe sweat... And Enjoy!

(This recipes makes 8 stuffed peppers - the hubby and I can eat that many by ourselves... But I would suggest 2-3 halves per person, until you become addicted...)

Bliss

2011-06-20T12:53:00.000-05:00

Hey - look at that! Two days in a row!

I just finished reading a book that I thought was so fun! I picked it up at the airport a couple of years ago, started reading it on the way home, and then promptly forgot about it on my bedside table... until a couple of weeks ago. It's called "The Geography of Bliss: One Grump's Search for the Happiest Places in the World" by Eric Weiner (pronounced "whiner" - not like that other guy!). It was interesting, funny, and opened my eyes to the different ways people - and cultures - find happiness.

Here are some of the things that stuck out for me:

*Some of the happiest places in the world - you may not realize are the happiest by visiting... The Netherlands and Switzerland, for example. The people tend to be pretty stoic, but the way of life leads to a contentment that breeds happiness. In the Netherlands, freedom (with responsibility) and tolerance make it easy to march to your own drummer. In Switzerland, punctuality, cleanliness, clean air, good chocolate, civic-mindedness, and the proximity to stunningly beautiful nature - all these things that you don't normally think of... Lead to a well-run society - and happiness.

*Another part of Switzerland's happiness that I liked? They go to great lengths not to provoke envy in others! They know instinctively that envy is the enemy of happiness... So if you've got it, don't flaunt it! They're also a trusting society. "You can't feel properly engaged if you don't trust the people you engage with on a regular basis. Engagement breeds trust; trust breeds engagement. It's a two way flow; both parts are critical."

*The Swiss are also patient... Another favorite quote: "Maybe happiness is this: not feeling like you should be elsewhere, doing something else, being someone else. Maybe the current conditions in Switzerland... make it simply easier to 'be' and therefore 'be happy.'"

*The people of Bhutan don't carry unrealistic expectations... The greatest failures and greatest successes are equal in their eyes - in the grand scheme of their lives. The most important question is, "did I make a difference in someone's life?" This Buddhist philosophy permeates life - and thoughts on death. Spirituality is everywhere. And they live with "enough." They'd rather play darts with friends, than spend a day working for things they don't need...

*Once again, in Bhutan, trust is mentioned - over wealth and health - as a key to happiness. Relationships are more important than any other factor.

*In Qatar, a country with LOTS of money and virtually no culture (read the chapter - fascinating!), but a strong Muslim faith-base, this was my favorite quote: "Islam, like other religions, maintains that if you want to be happy, put great effort into living a virtuous life and expect nothing, absolutely nothing. Divorce your actions from their results, and happiness will flow like oil."

That's all I have for today... I'll add more snippets tomorrow!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Feeling content with my life.
2. The belly-laughs of little kids outside my window.
3. Getting the house cleaned before our vacation.
4. Starting to pack.
5. Blogging again.
6. Breezes.
7. Our day lilies are blooming!
8. Sending notes to our sponsored child, Mete, in the Congo.
9. Interesting books that make us think about our approach to living life...
10. Fresh cut watermelon... Mmmm...

Back Again... Briefly!

2011-06-19T22:33:00.000-05:00

Ohmygosh. I can't believe I was away this long - AGAIN! Sorry about that....

I thought I'd do a catch up post today... Hopefully, post some more recipes tonight, and get a few more thoughts in before I leave on vacation Wednesday. So here goes:

Since my last post, in April, I have:

**Attended a Bible Training at Luther Seminary April 29-30. Amazing! All new ways to study and explore and teach the Bible... I'm kind of a dork, but I loved it!

**The hubby's sister and fiance came to pick up her son (who, as you might remember, was with us for his spring break - by choice?!). We had a very fun evening out at San Pedro Cafe in Hudson and were surprised to find out that we would be welcoming a new niece or nephew in December! So fun!

**Enjoyed an evening at Aster Cafe in Minneapolis, listening to Chris Pureka. Good times!

**Surprised the hubby with a "Stay-cation" weekend. A Thursday night Cory Chisel concert at the Cedar Cultural Center. Friday night dinner at Brasa, Mike Mangione concert at Aster Cafe, and a surprise overnight at Nicollet Island Inn... Breakfast at French Meadow Bakery (can I just say triple YUM?!), fun playing in the city, and drinks with friends that evening. A WONDERFUL weekend!

**A Mother's Day weekend surprise from our little god-daughter, Elly. She had some presents to be hand-delivered, so we met at Minnehaha Falls - played at the park, enjoyed some ice cream, and raced each other around the trees. A perfect visit.

**Our church started doing "Conspiracies of Kindness." Our first one was the Saturday of Mother's Day weekend... We spent part of an afternoon handing out flowers and notes of appreciation to women walking through our Village area - and when they asked why? We just told them we were doing a "practical act of kindness to show God's love." It was a fun activity and the women seemed to really appreciate their flowers!

**Dinner at my parents' house on Mother's Day! Dad and I both helped prepare dinner - and it was delish! (Steaks on the grill - a la my dad, and morel mushroom risotto. Mmmm....) It was a fun evening celebrating Mom!

**Our end-of-the-year Confirmation Retreat was in May - one of my favorite parts of the Confirmation process. I got to spend half a day with two 9th grade boys talking about faith - and they were actually interested, engaged, and having fun! (So much so, that when we were running behind, they asked if they could just stay longer... Wow!)

**We celebrated the hubby's sister's wedding the third weekend in May! Such a great weekend - and a beautiful wedding! It was such a gift to be there and see Kerry finally make all her dreams come true... Woo-hoo!

(My favorite pic of the day - mom of the bride and the groom get their first look at the bride!)

(Brandon, Kerry, and Dan - one happy family!)

(Our nephew, Evan. It's hard work being the most handsome ring-bearer ever!)

**Hubby got a new car... It's a sporty little Pontiac Vibe - the car he's been wanting for a few years. So fun to make that happen - but so sad to say good-bye to our little Mazda Protege. That car was our first purchase together (While we were still dating - good thing everything worked out, huh?!), and has been on countless fun and exciting road trips... She'll be missed.

**We managed to sneak in a late night concert on a Thursday at the Red Stag Supper Club... A 10pm show for Jack Klatt and the Cat Swingers. Great music! (But hubby was tired the rest of the weekend...)

**Another busy weekend: Friday attending a concert in our Village area and having dinner with my friend, Jill, at Mendoberri Cafe afterwards. The music was ok, the food was yummy, and the company was great! Then, Saturday was spent at a City Parks Celebration. I got to try my hand at facepainting (which I think I was getting the hang of!), enjoy a visit from little Elly, and play with the goats in the petting zoo! That night we went to Lake Harriet Bandshell to hear a new band - Matt Moberg. Great stuff!

And does it stop there?! Oh, heck no. Sunday found us: attending church, going to Grand Ol Day in St. Paul, off to Lake Harriet Bandshell again for Davina and the Vagabonds with my parents, happy hour at The Herkimer, and dessert at Sebastian Joe's ice cream... Man. That was a GOOD weekend!

**Coffee with my old youth group member, Kelsey, before she left for South Africa for 5 weeks! So fun to see these "kids" grow up - and still get to be a part of it. My friend, Jill, and I went together on a necklace for Kelsey to take to Africa, a reminder that her "2 big sisters" are thinking of her and sending prayers her way...

**Celebrating Confirmation and Graduation at church! What a fun day to bless and support these youth as they take new steps in their life... We got to confirm the two 9th grade boys, Matt and Jake, that I've worked with for 3 years - and loved every moment. They are kind, smart, loyal, creative, full of questions, and able to think about faith in all kinds of deep and meaningful ways. And they're just a blast to be with!

We also celebrated the graduation of our high school student, Ben. He's another one I adored - always true to himself, sometimes a challenge, but fun and mischievious... I can't wait to see what he'll do with his life... Cause I think it will be good!

**A hike in Afton State Park with the hubby and dog. I didn't have any asthma problems and didn't have to continually stop while climbing the big hills! Woo-hoo! (Although, it's pretty cute - our dog automatically stops at each bench and looks at me like, "Momma, do you need a rest?") And, hubby decided to do another loop hike, so I got to hike by myself for awhile - I came across a deer, 10 feet from the path. I had a rough morning, and was still upset about something - and when that deer looked up, and our eyes met, it was the perfect moment of prayer. We stood there looking at each other for several minutes - and I just felt my heart soften... A beautiful moment! When I met up with the hubby again, we saw bluebirds and many more deer... Awesome. We ended our hike with a picnic dinner by the river...

**An all day trip to Valleyfair with six youth from our church... An EXHAUSTING, and fun, day. Two of the boys brought their girlfriends - very fun. These kids are so polite and respectful, and sincere and honest, that I really have a good time being with them. (And they get a real kick when I scream bloody murder on the rides!)

**Dinner with some of our favorite people - Em and Jeremy - at Mediterranean Cruise Cafe... Good mediterranean food and belly dancers. Who could ask for more? (It kind of made me want to take a belly dancing class... Weird, huh?)

**Another dinner out with more fun people! The parents of my two confirmands and the boys took hubby and I to a tiki-themed restaurant, Psycho Suzi's. Hilarious place! Great food and drinks... A fun atmosphere! We had a lot of fun telling stories about the kids and each other - and so fun to celebrate a great three years - and look forward to what's to come!

**And this weekend, we went to the Stone Arch Arts Festival in Minneapolis. I went by myself last year and loved it - so this year the hubby and I decided to spend a whole day out there. I even went online and planned what stages I wanted to be at when, for the best music experiences! Well, it rained for half the day - but that just gave us an excuse to hide out in cafes for bits of time... We actually had a lot of fun, saw some great music (my favorite was a band called "Farewell Milwaukee"), and loved the people-watching! (We saw 3 doggie strollers with yorkies inside - one with 3 little doggies inside! Whoa.)

And awesome month and a half... Here are some things I'm thankful for tonight:

1. So many opportunities to do and see fun things in our city. Love it.
2. Music. Can't imagine life without it!
3. Having a job I love - with so many wonderful people.
4. Moments with family - to celebrate, laugh, try new things, and have fun with!
5. My Dad! It's Father's Day today!
6. And my grandpas - who I miss everyday.
7. A quite day... Lots of naps.
8. Two more days til VACATION!
9. This picture - and the fact that Bailey's days of the "cone of shame" are over! (Although we laughed for 2 weeks straight!)

10. New life. These baby birds were in a tree in our yard. This pic was taken the day before they left the nest... Good thing! They we smothering each other!

Woman

2011-04-27T21:07:00.003-05:00

I forgot how much I loved this poem... Enjoy!

Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.
I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Small reminders that we are wonderful just as we are.
2. Cleaning and organizing rooms at church - with 2 awesome women!
3. Progress.
4. A nap in the church library (still not feeling well).
5. Catching up with friends.
6. A nice drive home at dusk.
7. Watching American Idol.
8. The hubby and nephew telling me all about rock climbing (like two little kids!) and skateboarding.

9. Poetry... Why don't I read it more?
10. A hot bath.

Vortex

2011-04-26T21:52:00.000-05:00

My cold is in full swing... I feel as though I've fallen into a vortex. Ick.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Getting a bunch done at work and leaving early.
2. Hand sanitizer.
3. Cold drugs.
4. Kleenex.
5. Hot tea.
6. People who say, "You look like crap. Maybe you should go home."
7. A 2 hour nap.
8. A decision to stay home from a meeting.
9. Watching "The Voice" in my pjs, on the couch, with my nephew and I guessing what the judges are going to do.
10. Hearing about an excellent prayer session at church for all the hurting people in our congregation. (Wishing I was there, but glad to know it happened.)

Unusual

2011-04-25T22:31:00.002-05:00

Today was an unusual day to be sure!

It's my day off, after the busy-ness of Holy Week. And our 14 year-old nephew, Brandon, is visiting for the week.

The hubby had to work today, so Brandon and I slept in (til 10am - awesome!). Then, over breakfast, we discussed what a beautiful day it was turning into and decided to take the dog for a nice long walk.

On our nice long walk, we started talking about all kinds of fun things - like science and animals, places we'd like to visit or live, and what we like to learn about... In the coarse of the conversation, I asked if he'd like to go to Como Zoo that afternoon?

Of course! So we packed a a picnic lunch and headed to the zoo. We played with the giraffes, seals, orangutans, artic foxes, and many others... Walked all over the place... Shared our lunch by the monkey cages... and had a great time.

Sounds like a productive day, right?

That's just the beginning!

When the hubby came home, we headed to Mall of America to ride the amusement park rides! Uff-da! With unlimited wristbands and a Monday night - you can get a LOT of riding in! (I had to bum out after an hour and a half... I was getting a head cold and needed to let my brains find their equilibrium again. But the boys kept riding for another hour and a half!)

Funny side story... On the spinning rollercoaster, we were about to get into our 4-person car when a little kid came out of nowhere and jumped in with us. He couldn't have been more than 5 years old and as I looked around I realized he didn't have anyone with him! I ended up making sure he had his seatbelt on and the lapbars tightend... and he talked my ear off the entire ride (including warning me that he would scream like a little girl - I loved him on the spot!). We rode this ride three times - with him. He just loved it and wanted me, his new friend, with him each time... We finally had to go do some other things, so I asked where his family was and he said, "I don't know! See ya!" and away he ran! I was horrified that someone wasn't with him - he was so little and so trusting.... A little while later, on another ride, my hubby ended up helping another kid up into the seat and with the lap bars... I kind of chuckled. Where would the kids of this park be without the hubby and I?

Anyway... after hours of riding rides, Brandon decided he wanted to try sushi. (A boy after my own heart.) So we went to Tiger Sushi and gave him the full experience - even sitting at the sushi bar so he could watch them make the rolls. A very fun experience - and I'm proud to say - He liked it!

And yes, we finished the night with a little gelato... (Which was also a success, seeing as though our nephew is not a big ice cream eater.)

An unusually busy and crazy day - but, oh, so fun!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Sunshine.
2. A lovely walk with Brandon and the dog.
3. Fun conversations.
4. Monkeys and Giraffes. They made us laugh.
5. Naps.
6. Reasons to spend an evening at the amusement park. Loved it.
7. Cute little kids that make me giggle.
8. Brandon's willingness to try new things.
9. The boys letting me tag along.
10. A full day = a good night's sleep! (and Nyquil)

Tables

2011-04-24T21:05:00.002-05:00

Easter - a day for many festive tables!

I started the day with our Sunrise (ahem, 8:30am) service at church. When we walked into the sanctuary, the black drapes from Maundy Thursday still covered the altar, communion table, lecturns, communion rail, cross, and baptismal font... It was an empty, dreary sight to walk into and our pastor reminded us in her greeting that the first Easter morning, indeed, did start out this way. The ladies walked to the tomb, still in their grief, ready to care for Jesus' dead body... We sang the hymn, "Up From the Grave He Arose" as the black shrouds were replaced with white linens and white lilies and pink azaleas filled the space! Such a transformation - to be celebrated with a communion meal... A table all were invited to.

After the second service, the fellowship hall was filled with tables of families and friends sharing in a delightful brunch! Kids were running around searching for Easter eggs, parents laughing and taking pictures, friends catching up... Tables full of joy and laughter to celebrate the day!

Finally, around 12:30pm, I got to come home and take my post-church nap. Ahhh...

And then get ready to fill another table! The hubby and his nephew came home from Wisconsin and my parents came over to share Easter dinner with us. I dyed Easter eggs and hid them for the group - just for fun! Then we sat down to enjoy a simple, but nice meal together. (And a little "Apples to Apples" action afterwards! Nothing like a little game and laughter to end the evening!)

Empty tables... Sad and dreary, reminding us of a loss. Communion Tables... dressed and set, welcoming all who will come, to remember our Savior. Community tables... crammed and noisy, full of life and activity. Family tables... warm and cozy, nourishing in so many ways.

Today I am thankful for:

1. A stark reminder of how Easter really would have felt at sunrise...
2. Beautiful flowers!
3. Heartfelt communion moments.
4. Easter egg hunts - and excited kids! (especially the ones who put their buckets on their heads... or are the same size as their bucket!)
5. Candy. Especially Reese's peanut butter eggs and Jelly Bellys...

6. Hugs from kids who had moved away and were visiting...
7. The nephew picking us to spend his spring break with!
8. A family dinner.
9. Apples to Apples. I love this game!
10. Crawling into bed after a long day....

Saturday Smiles

2011-04-23T22:24:00.001-05:00

If you don't smile while watching this, something is definately wrong with you.

I couldn't stop smiling, and laughing at these adorable little kids.

Stay with it til the end - trust me.

Happy Saturday!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Notes from Prayer Vigil participants.
2. All the volunteers that made the vigil happen.
3. Time alone at church - taking down and setting up. So peaceful.
4. People in good moods at the grocery store.
5. The funny woman I met in the pink hat and rain boots.
6. Jelly Bellies.
7. Dying Easter eggs - and loving the "marbled" look!
8. A clean house... and the table set.
9. Tylenol PM. I WILL get a good night's sleep tonight!
10. A quick call from the hubby - just to say "goodnight."

Rain

2011-04-22T22:41:00.002-05:00

Rain. Appropriate on Good Friday, isn't it? A rainy, dreary day.

I spent my morning setting up our sanctuary for a Prayer Vigil - we have 30+ people who signed up to come in for 20 minutes at a time to sit in the sanctuary by themselves or with family members... and pray.

Once again, the sanctuary is dimly lit. The black draping was left on the altar tables from last night. Candles are lit and prayer stations (that allow people to pray in whatever way is comfortable for them) are set up around the room.

And let's face it, as you take a seat on our sanctuary to pray on Good Friday - the stained glass window of Jesus praying in the Garden of Gethsemane certainly adds to the atmosphere.

I took my turn as soon as the room was set up... and then came home. It's been interesting to watch the hours click by today - knowing who is in the sanctuary at any given time. Knowing people are praying for themselves, loved ones, church members, the church, and the world.... It's a powerful feeling to be a part of this experience.

And all the while, it's been raining. A sad day in the life of Christianity - remembering the dark hour of Christ's death. But a powerful day, too...

It may be Friday now...

But Sunday's coming!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Dawn's help this morning.
2. Being even more organized than I thought I was!
3. Rain - not snow.
4. Blooming daffodils.
5. Eating an early dinner with the hubby before he left town for the weekend.
6. Naps - I got up early today!
7. The "Women of Country - Girls' Night Out" special - great music!
8. Carrie Underwood's "How Great Thou Art" with Vince Gill - it actually made me teary-eyed!

9. A quiet night at home.
10. Our tax refund was FINALLY deposited today!

Quiet

2011-04-21T22:00:00.001-05:00

Today is Holy Thursday. Our church celebrates this day with a Service of Darkness.

We come into a slightly darkened sanctuary, sing some solemn hymns, hear a meditation, and share in communion.

Then, the readings of the Passion scriptures begin. As they are read, the worship elements are removed from the sanctuary (the cross, the Bible, the candles, the decorations, etc) and black cloths are draped over the altars and lecturns. A candle is extinguished and the lights dim further after each reading as the congregation sings a verse of "Were You There When They Crucified My Lord?"

The service ends with the Christ candle being the only light in the room still lit. The pastor walks it out of the room, to represent Christ's death... and then brings it back, to represent that God's love is always with us.

The room is left in complete darkness, but that one light... and silence.

Gradually, people get up and leave when they are ready.

It's beautiful. Really beautiful.

As someone who works in the church - Holy Week is never really that Holy. We're busy setting up, tearing down, coaching our helpers, making sure every detail is cared for... It's hardly a quiet week.

And I often forget to remember what it is that we're remembering and celebrating. I get caught up in the noise and details - and forget to experience the quiet...

And tonight, as I finally sat in a pew, at the end of the service...

The quiet settled in.

My eyes watered. My shoulders relaxed. My thoughts focused on one thing - the man that was Christ. The man that taught me how to live. That taught me faith, belief, and commitment. The man that died on a cross for us to know God through Him. Sacrifice, so that I could know life with God.

In a world that is so full of noise... I need this quiet a little more often.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Remembering details.
2. Helpers.
3. Kids from church who helped with the service - they did great!
4. A Holy moment.
5. Serving communion.
6. Going on an impromptu date with the hubby after the service.
7. Finding out our tax refund is, indeed, on the way!
8. Finding quick answers.
9. Preparing for another quiet day - our Prayer Vigil - tomorrow.
10. Looking forward to hosting Easter at my house!

Plenty

2011-04-20T21:41:00.033-05:00

Today I had a moment. A moment when things seem so clear.

In realizing how many times in the last month or so, I've listened to other people talk about all the things they wish were different in their lives, all the things they wished they had, all the changes they wanted to make (but weren't willing to spend the energy to make them happen) - I had an epiphany.

I have plenty.

I love and am in love with my hubby. I have a great family and wonderful friends. I love my home (and look forward to the day we can buy a house - but are working to get there). I love my job. I have creative and fun hobbies; interests and activities that give me joy; and skills and talents that can be used to bring comfort and peace to those around me. I have enough - and am blessed to be able to give some away.

Sure there are things about myself I'd like to improve... and I do need to spend more time and energy on those things. But, these aren't things that make me feel "less than." And they certainly aren't worth complaining about.

I have plenty.
Life is good.
In fact, it's pretty darn great.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. New cooking magazines!
2. Getting lots of my busy work done!
3. A leftover muffuletta sandwich for lunch!
4. Coming home early.
5. Making dinner for the hubby.
6. Eating our lovely dinner - and watching American Idol. Too funny.
7. Seeing 3 bluebirds on our walk tonight!
8. The dog's pure giddiness on our walk.
9. Coming home to see one of our tents set up in the living room... Hubby had someone coming to buy it. (It made me sad to see it go - it was a good tent for us for the last several years... We've had some funny stories on those trips!)
10. Knowing, even when unexpected bills come, we can manage. We have plenty.

Ohm

2011-04-19T23:59:00.003-05:00

So, today was a day. Not bad, not great - just bumming along, anxious for our book group to meet! We only meet once a month now, and that just feels way too long! We have so much to share now - what's going on in our lives, the highs and lows, what we felt about the book - and what we want to do about it...

So in the midst of our meeting last night - enjoying some yummy rice krispie bars, laughing about all kinds of stuff... The yoga instructer (you know the kind - cute, tiny, skinny, sweet-as-can-be) from the class next door came over to ask if she could close our door. We were too loud. And laughing too much.

She closed the door, and one of us said, "She can close the door, but I'm still going to laugh!" Which, of course, made us all burst into not-so-quiet laughter!

Then, one of the other ladies started telling a more serious story about something in her life that relates to the very serious book we've been reading... All of a sudden, all I could concentrate on was the odd noises coming from the other room... Barking. And really loud OHMs!

I was trying not to laugh during my friend's story... But man, was that distracting!

Oh dear... The conflict of having yoga and a crazy book group sharing the building at the same time... It can be rather humorous!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Prayer.
2. Resources.
3. Laughter.
4. Coming home for a quick dinner with the hubby.
5. The book "Half the Sky." Read it!
6. My ipod.
7. My Easter week has gotten a little quieter... Gotta like that!
8. The dog is learning to let me brush her teeth! She's doing so good!
9. It looks like the snow went south of us! Woo-hoo!
10. A documentary that was on PBS late tonight, called "Bag It" - about our use of plastic in the USA. Really interesting!

New Orleans Food

2011-04-18T21:34:00.000-05:00

Yum. I've been craving one of my favorite kind of sandwiches for a couple of weeks now... But there aren't many restaurants with it on the menu (around here, at least), so today I browsed the net til I found one that looked good.

And Wa-la! Delish!

A muffuletta sandwich... A New Orleans standby. Salty, melty, doughy deliciousness...

I'll post the recipe later this week... It's well worth sharing!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A quick roadtrip this morning to take Kayla back to school at Winona State.
2. Seeing 5 eagles this morning, bunches of turkeys, and a hawk swooping in on jumping fish!
3. 4 hours in the car with great music!
4. Unusual and funny decorating ideas. (Ahem. Kayla.)
5. The hubby's home!
6. Chatting about our weekends.
7. Muffuletta sandwiches... Fabulous.
8. Finding everything I needed at the grocery store in one trip!
9. A new recipe for Rice Krispie bars...
10. Heated car seats and an open moonroof... Spring in MN.

Music

2011-04-17T20:26:00.001-05:00

My little sister, Kayla, and I went to see the band, The Civil Wars today... Wow. Love them! Love, love, love.

(Picture courtesy of CityPages.)

Here's a review that describes them very well, and here's two of their videos, "Barton Hollow" and "Falling." (And heck, just for fun, here's their cover of Michael Jackson's "Billie Jean." Awesome.)

I don't know what my life would be without music. It's playing morning, noon, and night. At home, in the car, at work (sometimes), while I'm cooking, and on the elliptical. And so many different kinds... I just love how music can lift a mood, help you to just "be" in a mood, or can transform energy levels! It tells stories, tugs on the heartstrings, builds confidence, and makes me smile...

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A packed church this morning!
2. The children's choir sang - and they were AWESOME.
3. My confirmation class. They make me laugh.
4. An afternoon with Kayla - very fun.
5. An amazing concert.
6. Chocolate banana malt ice cream cone at Grand Ol Creamery. Yum.
7. Talking to the hubby on the phone (he's out of town). Miss him.
8. Hot showers and sweatpants.
9. Funny conversations.
10. Music!

Laughing

2011-04-16T20:08:00.001-05:00

Today is a day for laughing... Because if I don't laugh, I will cry.

Why you ask?
Because of this:

Welcome to April in Minnesota. It can really stink some years...

So, we laugh.

And then I go to my god-daughter, Elly's, 3rd birthday party! Now, that can bring a smile to my face!

The minute I walked in the door, she came yelling, "Megan's here!"

Smile. Laugh. Feel loved.

She was surrounded by family and friends - and well aware of how adored and loved she is! She played with each toy as it was opened (pleased as punch with them all!), she started the singing of Happy Birthday to herself, she paraded around with her new Duluth Pack, horsey, western hat, and golf clubs... And had a ball!

(She also got a new Joe Mauer shirt! Lucky girl!)

Elly gave me lots of laughs today... What a joy to be in her life! (Thanks, Em and Jeremy!)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Knowing the snow will melt quickly...
2. Elly!
3. All the family spoiling little Elly rotten. Too cute.
4. Super cute bee cupcakes!

5. Loads of laundry DONE.
6. The band, The Civil Wars. LOVE them.
7. The dog letting me brush her teeth... Yeah, I know. Not very exciting, but a huge improvement in our house!
8. Reading my book in bed.
9. I think our neighbors are moving...
10. I saw another bluebird today!

Kids

2011-04-15T20:05:00.001-05:00

Ok... the saga continues. Today, as I was out running errands, I had to wait for about 20 minutes at an appointment so I took my book with me. Yep, you got it. Still reading, "Half the Sky."

(I'm going to have to not finish it, I think. It's costing me too much money. And when the hubby comes home from his hiking weekend... I'm gonna get scolded.)

So, today I was reading about the Congo in Africa. About how rape is considered a weapon of war. Women, daughters, little girls are raped - just because! A 16 year-old boy soldier was quoted saying, "It's a soldiers right to rape girls."

Oh my Lord. It made me want to puke.

The poor girls of the Congo... They can barely leave their houses for fear of the inevitable. And the police are of no help - if you report that you were raped... the police will likely rape you, too.

These girls are raped, beaten, tortured, and left for dead. Broken in every way.

I want to puke. Again.

So... As I got to wondering how I could save a girl from the Congo... I decided to log onto World Vision's website and do what I could for one girl.

I sponsored a child today. Her name is Mete and she is 5 years old. She was the only picture I saw with a smile - and I decided I would do what I could to keep her smiling.

She's considered a "Hope Child" on the site due to the horrible health conditions in the Congo... HIV and AIDS are rampant (Gee, ya think? Might have something to do with a culture of tolerating rape?!). As of now her health is good... But who knows what will happen down the road. I'll be curious to get her information in a few weeks - to know if she has parents, siblings, or is an orphan...

I'm sure you'll be hearing stories about my kid, Mete, once in awhile... If you have ideas on how to encourage her lovely smile - I'm open to them! It seems like such a hard thing to do from halfway across the world... I wish I could wrap her in my arms and protect her from all the evil in her world...

I'll be praying for her - will you, too?

(And I'm just kidding - I totally intend to finish this book, as much as it hurts to do so...)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Getting lots of chores done.
2. Birthday presents for god-daughters.
3. 4 of my microloans through kiva.org have been fully financed already! The ladies get to make some dreams come true!
4. A clean house.
5. A dreary day - good for getting things done inside.
6. My house-finches are back!
7. Cold pizza.
8. Mete's smile.
9. World Vision. I've done a lot through them in the past - it's a great organization!
10. Good music to dance to! (While cleaning, of course...)
11. I just saw this online - how awesome is she?!

Jumping In

2011-04-14T23:49:00.001-05:00

So, I've been sitting here, continuing to read the book "Half the Sky" (which I wrote about yesterday)... And the wheels are turning.

The book is about the oppression of women all over the world - the slave trade, sex trafficking, rapes, assaults, women with no power, no respect, no medical care... and the list goes on. But the chapter I just finished reading talks about the fact that when women are educated, when they have skills, when they have something to be proud of - they become more assertive. They stand up for themselves. They fight back.

So, I'm thinking... How can I help young women on the other side of the globe find that confidence to fight back? What would give them self-worth in their own environment?

And then I remembered kiva.org. It's a microloan organization that connects individuals or small groups of people in poverty-stricken parts of the world - with those of us sitting at our computers with a credit or debit card within reach... These young women can start an entire business for $300 and make a living selling fruit or rice - and I can help make that happen by giving $25 at a time, right from my couch!

I can help these women find respect for themselves and value in who they are and what they are capable of doing - by simply giving them a loan...

So why not?!

I jumped in with both feet tonight! I put down the book (I needed a break anyway!) and started up the computer...

I donated toward four loans in Cambodia (where many of the stories in the book are taking place so far), one loan in Pakistan (in the town where part of "A Thousand Splendid Suns" took place), and one in Afghanistan. A couple of the loans will help families repair or add on to their homes, a couple will help start businesses, and a couple will help with transportation to and from work.

It may not be much. But it's something. It's a start. And it's something I could do without a whole lot of thought...

I'll be curious what bigger ideas come out of the discussion at book group on Tuesday... From the notes I've been receiving, I think more wheels are a-turnin!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Getting to say good-bye to the hubby before he left for a long weekend.
2. Getting a bunch of putzy work done today.
3. A canceled meeting - I needed the break.
4. Pizza.
5. Challenge.
6. Having plenty.
7. Being able to give.
8. Confidence.
9. Self-worth.
10. Ideas.

Injustice

2011-04-13T23:59:00.000-05:00

I'm reading the book, "Half the Sky" by Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn. It was the pick for our book group this month, after it was highly recommended by several different people (and by all the rave reviews online!).

The book is about the oppression of women all over the world - and is a call to action to help.

Wow. It's horrible and sad and depressing... With bits and pieces of light in the individual girls' stories.

But Wow.

Tonight, as the winds were howling, and I was antsy and couldn't sleep - I decided to start reading this book (seeing as though I have to be ready to discuss it next Tuesday!). I read from 12-2am.

The winds died down ever so slightly about that time, and I was finally able to fall asleep...

And you know what? I dreamt about being enslaved and trapped! It was a horrible dream...

Weird. I don't think I've ever read a book that made such an impact that I later dreamed about it...

I have a long ways to go - I'm only about a third into it... And I'm a bit worried what my sleep will be like throughout the weekend.

It's not an easy book to read. Many of us already know the kinds of things that are going on in our world (far away from our cozy homes). But it's an important book. It should be uncomfortable to read. It should jar us enough to toss and turn at night.

It should make us want to do something. The question is what?
And I think this book will have some great ideas... I'll let you know when I finish!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Excedrin.
2. Bluebirds.
3. Easter baskets.
4. People who volunteer time to make others smile.
5. People who make fabulous soup dinners for the volunteers!
6. Fudge-y brownies.
7. Good music on the drive home.
8. Hubby got his wish (for a backpacking weekend).
9. The smell of campfire.
10. American Idol...

Healthy Eating

2011-04-12T20:45:00.001-05:00

As we continue to strive to eat in healthier ways... We've decided to try yet another new thing!

We're subscribing to True Cost Farms for our meat supply this summer!

"The fine flavor and texture of our products is a result of our focus on quality.

We raise a variety of rare, slow-growing breeds, selected for their deep flavors and excellent health. They grow in natural living conditions and are treated with care and respect. We actively manage their environment, regularly rotating the animals to fresh fields of pasture and ensuring their access to the most nutritious feed possible. We carefully and artfully process the meat with superior taste in mind.

"We chose the name True Cost Farm because the price of our products reflects the complete cost of raising food according to the principles of true farming. Most food in this country comes from conventional factory farms, which focus on quantity, not quality. They produce food that's deceptively cheap, but there are many hidden costs. Their practices have dire and expensive consequences for individual and public health, the quality of our air, water and soil, animal well-being, and much more.

"At True Cost Farm, you pay for what is true and what is right – fine food, sustainably raised."
--http://www.truecostfarm.com/

Last year, we experimented with the farmers' markets, picking berries, growing some herbs and tomatos ourselves, and canning and freezing produce... This year we're on to discovering new ways to buy and use meat!

It seems the less I buy at the grocery store these days... the happier I am!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A quiet day of work.
2. Getting on the same page.
3. Lunch with Eric and Penny.
4. The beautiful flowers at the church, leftover from a funeral (of a wonderful woman!) - they're aroma fills the church! I love it.
5. My black squirrel has started visiting my office window again.
6. Funny Faecbook statuses.
7. Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution.
8. Placing our order for True Cost Farms!
9. Making a yummy fettucine alfredo for dinner.
10. Windows still open at 8:30pm... Love it!

Grilling Out

2011-04-11T19:52:00.001-05:00

Today was our first Grilling Out of the season! Woo-hoo!

Gotta love these first few warm days... When you go for a walk with a short sleeve shirt and a lightweight hoodie - and realize you're too hot! When the sun is so bright, you don't leave the house without sunglasses. When there are new buds on all the trees. Green shoots coming out of the ground. The mallards and geese are nesting and pairing off. The muskrats are finding and building new homes. Our eagles have returned to our neighborhood. Kids are out on bicycles, rollerblades, scooters, and skateboards. The birds are back at the feeders. The windows are open.

And I can run outside barefoot to put the dog out! (And not get cold!)

I love these days... There's hope for summer afterall!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Early morning sunshine.
2. The book, "Velvet Elvis" by Rob Bell.
3. Walks.
4. Using up the last of last year's frozen and canned goodies.
5. Spring colors.
6. Hubby's grilling skills.
7. Baked potatoes.
8. Avoiding laundry... again...
9. The cookbook: "The Splendid Table's How to Eat Dinner."
10. Falling asleep on the couch.

Fun!

2011-04-10T20:43:00.001-05:00

This afternoon, my confirmation class and I finally got to have a little fun together! The three kids, three of the parents, hubby, I and one other college-aged kid from church headed to Mall of America to play at Nickelodean Universe for some rides and fun!

I rode rides I have avoided at all costs - and LOVED them! I was told that my screams could beckon people from our group to whatever ride we were currently on - from the other side of the park! Ha ha ha. Yeah. I'm a screamer. But for some odd reason, I love the rides! By the second time, I just laugh through the whole ride.

(My kids - aren't they great?)

After the rides, we re-joined some of the parents upstairs at Cadillac Ranch for dinner.

And after dinner... The taunts and dares were too much to pass up. Most of the adults challenged each other to ride the mechanical bull!

(Dun, dun, duuuun. The bull.)

(Cathy - I'm impressed!)

(Kevin - so funny!)

(The hubby got going fast enough to be blurry!)

And yes. I gave in and gave it a try. Uff da. That's a lot harder than it looks!

(I didn't get fast enough to be blurry. Not even close. This is right before the fall... HA!)

But then, I needed some gelato for dessert. (Kind of like when a little kid dares to try something new? Must be rewarded!)

So much fun!

(I have a feeling some of the adults might be sneaking back there again sometime soon...)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A fun morning at church - a great small group, nice worship, yummy brunch!
2. A quick nap.
3. Roller coasters. So fun.
4. Laughing with my church kids.
5. Laughing with their parents.
6. Trying new things.
7. Getting up on the bull (not doing the bull, but getting ON it - that's a lot of work!)
8. Sharing my love of gelato with the group - Yum!
9. Enjoying the rest of the quiet evening at home with the hubby.
10. A good night's sleep!

Easy Going Saturday

2011-04-09T22:27:00.001-05:00

A New Orleans style breakfast of beignets and chickory coffee - straight from New Orleans, thanks to the hubby's mom!

A walk with the dogs through our little nature area... Beautiful weather - and happy pups!

A visit from my parents when they came to pick up Hershey and some nice chatting.

A phone call from my sis in Alaska - lots of laughs, as usual. (Complete with knock knock jokes from my niece!)

A Delicious spring dinner of morel risotto, beets, and homemade french bread... With a little white wine. Perfect.

To finish off the day - cuddling up to watch the movie "How To Tame Your Dragon." (We actually considered making a blanket fort to watch the movie in... We were just too tired to put it together by this point...) Can I say, I loved this movie?! I really wish I had seen it in the theater in 3D - it would have been wonderful, I think!

Just the kind of easy-going, laid back, fun day I needed. A REAL Saturday, with NO work! Yeah!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Sleeping in.
2. Laughing with the two dogs.
3. Our first experiment in frying food - beignets. Yum!
4. Windows open!
5. A nice walk.
6. A fun grocery shopping trip - it's always fun when we go together!
7. Cooking together.
8. A fabulous dinner.
9. Laughing all day.
10. Loving my life.

Date Night

2011-04-08T23:59:00.006-05:00

Woo-hoo! Friday!

What to do? What to do? It's nice outside... Time for some springy fun!

So - Dinner at Sea Salt Eatery. First meal of the year OUTSIDE! The line was long, people were in great moods, the scallop tacos were sublime, the beer was cold, and our favorite musician is back from his New York winter - ready to share the summer with us Minnesotans!

After dinner, we shared some Sebastian Joe's ice cream (Salty Caramel - mmmmm) and walked down to the Minnehaha Falls - they were flowing! With all the flooding nearby, the falls were really rushing. Right over the snow still gathered in the caves below - so cool.

After dinner, we made a quick stop at Midwest Mountaineering on a quest for hiking socks. Exciting, I know. Ha ha ha.

And, the rest of the night was spent at Kieran's Irish Pub downtown. Big gingers, Guiness, live music... A perfect date night out - with all the signs of summer right around the corner!

Loving it!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. An easy-going day at home.
2. My parents' dog, Hershey, staying with us for the night. It's like a play-date for my dog!
3. The hubby willing to go out tonight.
4. A good work out.
5. Scallop tacos. First ones of the year. Yum!
6. Dog-watching at the park. They make me laugh.
7. Slippery floors - and sliding on them. Woo-hoo! (Sorry, Midwest Mountaineering!)
8. Pub pretzels.
9. Playing with the dogs at 2am. Too funny!
10. Knowing I can sleep in tomorrow!

Conspiracy

2011-04-07T23:16:00.024-05:00

Tonight, we had our first prep meeting for a Conspiracy of Kindness activity at church. This all started with a book that was placed on my desk last fall. It was a book published in the early 80's - and looked cheesy as could be. I picked it up and read through it anyway... out of couriosity.

It looked like a great ministy for our church - small acts of kindness to share the love of God in practical ways. No huge time commitments. No huge money commitments. We'd just need people with big hearts to do nice things for people they didn't know - and be able to tell the people that we are "showing God's love in a practical way."

I got a group of 8-10 people to read the book with me and start brainstorming ideas. We met for 7 weeks - and have a lot of fun ideas!

So what's next? We're planning! We're doing! (I honestly wasn't sure if we'd get to this point - but we ARE!)

So tonight, we planted basil seeds in cute little starter trays and on the Saturday before Mother's Day we plan to go down to our little "Village" area with shops, stores, and restaurants and hand out these little plants in honor of the women that make a difference in people's lives. Maybe we'll hand them to dads out with the kids - and encourage them to take them home to mom. Maybe we'll hand them to the women themselves and thank them for all the ways they make the world a better place... So many fun possibilities!

But I'm sure there will be some smiles. Some laughs. Some "I don't get why your giving this to me for free!"

But it's a first step for our team - a first to many more, I hope!

And besides... I just love the name "Conspiracy" of Kindness... I like being mischievious.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Driving around with a trunk full of birthday bags... It just makes me smile.
2. The weather is continuing to warm up!
3. Our friend, Barb's, surgery seems to have gone well today!
4. Subway turkey sandwiches.
5. Laughing with the Conspiracy ladies.
6. The hubbies educational re-cap of the beer tasting that I missed.
7. Our orchid is looking beautiful!

8. Beginning to plan for our "month of play" in May!
9. A cuddly pup when I got home.
10. Going to bed early!

Birthday Bags

2011-04-06T22:33:00.001-05:00

Tonight, at church, our Lenten service project was filling gift bags with the things that make for a good birthday party: balloons, cake mix, frosting, candles, plates, invitations, banners, noisemakers, a card, and Target gift cards!

We filled over 20 bags and will be donating them to Emma's Place (Emma's place offers permanent, affordable housing for homeless, low-income families. It has thirteen three- and four-bedroom townhomes for single parents with three or more children.) for kids who may not get a birthday party otherwise...

We had 30 people come share dinner, a devotional, and put together the bags - and all with laughter and joy at being together and sharing our blessings with others.

What a great way to end a busy day!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Frosted Mini-Wheats.
2. Super curly hair!
3. Lunch with Dad - a nice break in my day.
4. An unexpected errand with my boss - including a stop for coffee... Mmmm...
5. Plans to go to Nickelodean Universe this weekend with some youth group families!
6. Planning our theme for the month of May at church - "The Spiritual Habit of Play!"
7. A youth group kid, Lydia, helping to lead the devotional tonight - she did such a great job!
8. A nice turnout for our service project tonight!
9. American Idol... a guilty pleasure.
10. Signs of spring EVERYWHERE! (Hundreds of geese flew over my car today and my black squirrel came to visit at work today... Spring is here!)

Alignment

2011-04-05T20:47:00.000-05:00

So, I've been hearing the news and gossip about Rob Bell's new book, "Love Wins." Rob is a pastor and writer, as well as the creator of the video series "NOOMA" (which I love). Many of the ways he talks about faith, God, Jesus, and the Spirit makes sense to me and is how I, too, see my spirituality.

But lately, his new book, is causing a ruckus. So many fundamental, conservative big-wigs are speaking out against him - saying he must not be Christian after all because some of the phrasing in this new book makes it sound like he doesn't believe in hell. A friend of mine was upset by this - her whole image of him torn. I went in search of the Twitter updates and news articles about the issue - and found that most of the people spouting off hadn't even read the book because it hasn't been PRINTED yet! Oh, for goodness sakes....

I had an older book of Rob's on my bedside table that I hadn't gotten around to reading, so I thought I would start it today. I must say, like everything else I've seen and read of his - I'm loving it. Here's my favorite excerpt from today's reading:

"As a Christian, I am simply trying to orient myself around living a particular kind of way, the kind of way that Jesus taught is possible. And I think that the way of Jesus is the best possible way to live.

"This isn't irrational or primitive or blind faith. It is merely being honest that we all are living a 'way.'

"I'm convinced being generous is a better way to live.

"I'm convinced forgiving people and not carrying around bitterness is a better way to live.

"I'm convinced having compassion is a better way to live.

"I'm convinced pursuing peace in every situation is a better way to live.

"I'm convinced listening to the wisdom of others is a better way to live.

"I'm convinced being honest with people is a better way to live.

"This way of thinking isn't weird or strange; it's simply acknowledging that everybody follows somebody, and I'm trying to follow Jesus."
--Rob Bell, from "Velvet Elvis"

It's all about aligning my life with the teachings of Jesus...
And we all need the occasional re-alignment...
*Smile*

Things I am thankful for today:
1. Waking up to sunshine!
2. A homemade muffin for breakfast.
3. Prayers being answered.
4. Visitors at work - brightens my day!
5. So many interesting and exciting things happening at our church.
6. Going for a nice, long walk tonight.
7. Making another new yummy dinner!
8. Being sleepy early in the evening - there will be some good sleep tonight!
9. Looking forward to lunch with Dad tomorrow.
10. Our family room floor covered in dog toys: a stuffed gorilla, 2 "bobo" toys, 2 bones, a stuffed bunny, and 2 balls... You'd think we had a toddler! Goodness...

A Quick Update

2011-04-04T13:44:00.001-05:00

So... I've been a little absent from the blogging world for a little over a month now. Truth is, it just hasn't been a priority.

Work has been really busy - and when you work at a church, that means more than just pushing paperwork. It means stretching your limits emotionally as well as intellectually, and sometimes, physically. We've had a LOT of bad news about congregation members in the last month - cancer diagnoses, deaths in peoples' families, more lost jobs, dying pets, people moving away, the death of a long-time parishoner... It's been a lot to handle. (And it doesn't help that I get so emotionally connected!)

On top of all that, I haven't been feeling well for about 5 weeks. Today's the first day I've been feeling back to normal (even a full work out - woo-hoo!).

So yes, I know you've all been patiently waiting for my return... But sometimes, life comes before the computer. And I think that's ok.

Here's what else I've been up to since my last post:
* Re-connecting with the book group ladies over dinner in March. (Good thing - there were big things happening in the lives of these remarkable ladies!)

* The hubby and I found a house we loved in Minneapolis. After trying every possible angle to figure out how to unload our townhome (we owe far more than it's worth in this economy), we had to let the house go. Grrr... We're trying to get ourselves postitioned to try again a year from now. But we're having fun exploring the neighborhoods we're interested in!
* We had a very memorable St. Patty's Day with the parents! Ha ha ha. Long story - but let's say, it involved a not-so-Irish pub, latino music, rap and hip-hop, huge afros, and a lot of laughter.
* A lovely breakfast with two of my favorite ladies - Em and Elly - at my favorite cafe! So much fun!

* A new cookbook for my birthday that is yielding very yummy results!

* The hubby re-created our evening in Belgium last year for my birthday this year! Moules and Frites for dinner with yummy Belgian beer. Candles and tulips on the table. Good music. Dessert of ice cream and stroopwafels. A relaxing, fun evening at home = perfect!

* A fun lunch for my birthday at my parents' house - even Kayla was home! (And finally making plans with Kay to see a concert together - The Civil Wars in a couple of weeks!)
* A quick trip to Milwaukee for my sister-in-law's bridal shower. So fun to see her happy - and being celebrated! She's come a long way in the last 5 years - and it's about time she has wonderful things happening in her life!

(Some of the women from my hubby's family - his sister, Kerry; Aunt Bernice; Aunt and Godmother, Marion; Mom, Joan; and in front, Aunt Annie)

* And yesterday, my friend, Jill, and I went to visit Kelsey (an former youth group member, who's now in college). Good company, good food and drinks, a stop at Trader Joe's on the way home - all-in-all a fun day!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Feeling more and more like myself.
2. A good workout.
3. Catching up here!
4. A busy - but fun - week this week!
5. Sunshine.
6. A windy day - and NO headache!
7. Our orchid is blooming (for the first time in 2 years!).
8. New recipes - tonight? Chicken curry.
9. Stacks of books to read.
10. Good problems at work - problems caused by good things!
11. Love this blog post by Brene Brown...

Yeah, yeah, yeah... Day 30

2011-04-04T12:43:00.001-05:00

Day 30 - A picture of someone you miss...

My Grandparents (and me). I think of them everyday. They visit me in my dreams.
Miss them...

30 Days of Photos: 29

2011-02-28T11:16:00.001-06:00

Day 29 - A picture that can always make you smile.

This is the most recent picture that makes me laugh everyday... My sister and her family live in Anchorage, Alaska. Last weekend was a big festival and on Saturday the theme had something to do with salmon (my niece's favorite fish!). So, Fin (my niece) got to dress up as a fisherman - and of course, sport a salmon on her head!

Every time I log onto Facebook and see this picture, I laugh out loud. Hilarious!

Things I am thankful for:

1. Strawberry jam.
2. Working out.
3. Interesting news from work...
4. Talking to my sis today.
5. Catching up with Mom today, too.
6. Breakfast for dinner. Mmm...
7. Blogs that make me smile and make me think.
8. Friendly bank tellers.
9. Poodles.
10. Febreeze.

30 Days of Photos: 28

2011-02-27T19:43:00.000-06:00

Day 28 - A picture of something you're afraid of.

Ha ha ha. I'm afraid of falling. Therefore, I hate putting weird things on my feet and hurling myself down hills (ie skates, rollerblades, skis, etc). I don't know why I'm so afraid of falling - but it can literally bring me to tears. Feel free to ask my hubby about the first time we went cross-country skiing - he loves to tell that story!

Yet... I've been sky-diving twice. Figure that one out!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Waking up a little early - makes for a more relaxing morning.
2. The hubby coming to church with me! (I missed him last week.)
3. My confirmation kids - too funny.
4. Two dogs in church today! (I kind of like that people can bring their dogs... when they need them.)
5. A baptism of an adorable little girl!
6. Hugs.
7. A chocolate bar and a glass of wine. Lovely.
8. Cozying up to watch the Oscars with the hubby.
9. Pjs.
10. Our magic couch.

30 Days of Photos: 27

2011-02-26T19:13:00.002-06:00

Day 27 - A picture of yourself and a family member.

This is Kayla, my youngest sister. She graduated high school last spring! She was in such a rush to get to the party after the ceremony, that I was lucky to get this quick pic!

Kayla's a pretty cool chick - and lots of fun! I got a wonderful surprise this week when she asked me to go to a concert with her! (We missed out on that one... But I'm looking forward to planning another!)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Our church leadership retreat - such great people, fun ideas, and willingness to get to know one another.
2. Learning to play jacks.
3. Clown noses.
4. Quiche. Yum-a-roo.
5. Calculators.
6. Planning for the future.
7. Honest discussions.
8. Realizing how content we are.
9. Looking forward to another summer with our pool!
10. Going to bed early.

30 Days of Photos: 26

2011-02-25T18:56:00.004-06:00

Day 26 - A picture of something that means a lot to you.

(The Netherlands, March 2010.)

All the adventures the hubby and I find! We have so much fun together and enjoy every minute of seeing new things, trying new foods, meeting new people... From local events to traveling around the world - our adventures are constantly giving new life to all we do!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Beginning the day with reading in bed...
2. Making Irish brown bread!
3. More questions answered.
4. A very clean house!
5. The hubby going grocery shopping.
6. The hubby cooking for our church event while I get some work done.
7. How lucky I am...
8. Talking to my sister, Emily - it's her BIRTHDAY!

9. Getting creative.
10. Looking forward to tomorrow's church leadership retreat...

30 Days of Photos: 25

2011-02-24T18:50:00.009-06:00

Day 25 - A picture of your day.

My amaryllis is in full bloom - finally! It's so pretty - and awkward - all at the same time... But it brings a lovely springy-ness to my home in the midst of more snow everyday!

It makes me smile.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A normal day at work.
2. Hot tea.
3. A cozy office.
4. My "Conspiracy of Kindness" small group - a great group!
5. Fun ideas.
6. Noticing the needs around us...
7. Getting answers.
8. Asking more questions.
9. Not giving up... yet.
10. Girl Scout cookies.

30 Days of Photos: 24

2011-02-23T18:36:00.009-06:00

Day 24 - A picture of something you wish you could change.

Closed mindedness. I wish people were able to learn from each other, be in conversation, and open their minds to new possibilities. I get so tired from all the "my way or the highway" attitudes that fill our news, media, and online message boards. I wish we could all admit that no one has all the answers - and the only way to find the answer is to listen to one another and work together...

I have a feeling it will be a long time til this changes...

Things I am thankful for today:

1. The amazing ways I get to be involved in people's lives... I stand in awe.
2. Friendships growing ever deeper.
3. Prayer.
4. New life.
5. Trust.
6. Faith.
7. Sleep - and lots of it!
8. The hubby taking care of things at home.
9. A dog that can't seem to live without me!
10. Love.

30 Days of Photos: 23

2011-02-22T18:25:00.000-06:00

Day 23 - A picture of your favorite book.

The Outlander series, by Diana Gabaldon is my favorite series of novels... Adventure, romance, comedy - they have it all! I'm so attached to the characters - waiting for the next novel can be torture!

30 Days of Photos: 22

2011-02-21T18:16:00.001-06:00

Day 22 - A picture of something you wish you were better at.

(Ha ha ha! When I entered "outgoing" into the google image finder - the first picture that popped up? This one! Apparently, I want to be like Superman!)

I wish I was more outgoing. Able and willing to talk to anyone without getting shy or worrying about what they will think of me. I'm getting better... Slowly but surely!

30 Days of Photos: 21

2011-02-20T18:04:00.009-06:00

Day 21 - A picture of something you wish you could forget.

People that I love talking about me behind my back... and I overheard them. It's happened a few times, and each time hurts as bad as the first.

Interesting that this comes to mind... In church this month we're focusing on the importance of how we use our words. Making sure we use them as gifts, as ways to uplift, and in ways that say "yes!"

A good reminder...

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A wonderful church service - despite quickly falling snow!
2. All my confirmands together again.
3. 30 visitors to our church, from another church. Such a joy to welcome them!
4. Everyone brushing snow off each other's cars after church.
5. Being told I was "passionate" and "joyful". Cute.
6. Hugs.
7. Getting home safe on icy, snowy, foggy roads!
8. Prayer.
9. Getting through a whole pile of magazines (looking through them, tearing out what I want, recycling them - and getting them out of my house!)
10. Falling asleep early...

30 Days of Photos: 20

2011-02-19T08:48:00.002-06:00

Day 20 - A picture of somewhere you'd love to travel.

Tuscany, Italy... And then Venice, Rome, Florence... The whole country!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Lists.
2. The laundry's done.
3. Colorful socks.
4. Finding money I forgot I had!
5. Mom and Dad going to an open house with me.
6. More fun discoveries about the house.
7. A delicious dinner.
8. A beautiful night for a drive home.
9. Fun magazines in my mailbox.
10. My niece, Finley's, birthday!!! I love you, Fin!

30 Days of Photos: 19

2011-02-18T16:24:00.000-06:00

Day 19 - A picture of you when you were little.

I think this picture says it all. Ha ha ha. (I'm pretty sure I was getting ready for a play-date with my grandpa... Poor guy!)

Today I am thankful for:

1. So many interesting resources online.
2. The hubby came home for lunch before leaving for the weekend!
3. Extravagant sunshine!
4. Creativity.
5. A less painful headache today.
6. Pictures from the past - kind of fun.
7. Netflix.
8. Curling up in bed with a book tonight!
9. Taking down ALL winter decorations! Woo-hoo!
10. Putting up spring-y decorations - I need them!

30 Days of Photos: 18

2011-02-17T14:34:00.001-06:00

Day 18 - A picture of your biggest insecurity.

Making choices. Big choices. Little choices. What to do, what to say, where to go, and how to get there... I think in the end, I usually make good choices - but during the process, I worry and worry and worry.

And then I worry I won't have the guts to see it through! Ugh.

We're in the process of making some big decisions right now... Goodness. It's all I can think about!

But I have faith that whatever is supposed to be, will be. And whatever happens, we will learn from it and more forward... Because really, what else is there to do?

Today I am thankful for:

1. Soft lamps in my office... Great for headache days!
2. Headlights when driving in dense fog...
3. An interesting church leadership book.
4. Making positive choices.
5. Friends who offer advice.
6. A nice dinner with church friends.
7. Seeing Andrea's renewed spirit when she returned from vacation.
8. A phone call from my sis.
9. The fact that my hubby and I work through tough decisions in a very productive way.
10. Cuddling up on the couch for some good tv tonight.

30 Days of Photos: 17

2011-02-16T14:37:00.001-06:00

Day 17 - A picture of someone that has made a huge impact on your life recently.

This is my pastor, Penny (and her hubby, Eric). She's also my boss. Which always makes things interesting!

She's one of those people that exudes joy and love. She gets excited over funny little things and lets everyone know with a "whoop" of joy. She gives hugs. She prays amazing prayers - and when she prays for you individually, you feel them in the depth of your soul. She cries when her heart breaks. She wears colorful outfits and jewelry. She loves thinking outside the box - and learning from failures and celebrating the successes!

I was ready to quit my job and never work in a church again - until she came along. Not only has she made this a fun job for me - but she's seen me for who I am. For my gifts and talents, for my heart for ministry, for my love of the people of this church. She's allowed me to take risks (some worked, some not so much). She's made sure people know when I've succeeded. She stands my me and gives me the confidence to go forward.

In three and a half years, I've become who I'm more fully supposed to be, I think. And I believe it's largely due to her influence on my life. She may be my boss and my pastor - but I think I'm very lucky to have her as a friend, as well.

Thanks, Penny!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Sunshine!
2. 50 degrees!
3. The nice people at our post office.
4. Optimism.
5. So many prayers going out for one of our church families.
6. Vulnerability.
7. Prayer shawls.
8. A miracle for a friend. (You're right, Kate. That's what it was!)
9. The hubby told me I looked cute today. Ha ha ha.
10. A quiet evening at home... So tired...

30 Days of Photos: 16

2011-02-15T21:06:00.000-06:00

Day 16 - A picture of someone who inspires you.

This is Elly, our goddaughter. Her mama and I were recently watching her play and realized that she is at the perfect age right now. She has no fears in life. Nothing has yet made her feel afraid of the dark or the boogey man. She's not afraid of what other people think of her. She's free to be the person she is. Totally free. Totally authentic and true to who she is meant to be.

It's kind of magical. And it makes me want to let go of those silly fears that creep up on us as we grow into adults... She makes me want to be silly, dance in the kitchen, play kickball in the living room, fingerpaint with all one color and "ooo" and "aaah" at the feeling of the goo between my fingers... She makes me want to go back to a time of no fears... A time of being free.

Elly inspires me.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Alarms.
2. Laughter with my boss.
3. Prayer.
4. A fuzzy poodle.
5. Melting snow.
6. Splashing in puddles.
7. Discussions about the future.
8. The dog got a bath - and smells so much better!
9. The hubby doing our taxes.
10. Grace.

30 Days of Photos: 15

2011-02-14T12:15:00.002-06:00

Day 15 - A picture of something you want to do before you die.

Travel. More. Anywhere. I just love visiting new places, experiencing new things, trying new foods, talking to new people. So many places to see, so little time!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. The book, "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coehlo.
2. Flowers.
3. Our amaryllis BLOOMING!
4. Fun talks about possibilities.
5. Doctors who move swiftly for our friends.
6. Homemade french bread.
7. The movie, "Eat, Pray, Love."
8. Chocolate covered strawberries.
9. The dog, sleeping by the oven, while the bread is baking.
10. Love.

30 Days of Photos: 14

2011-02-13T23:22:00.001-06:00

Day 14 - A picture of someone you could never imagine your life without.

Em. She's been one of my best friends since 8th grade. I can't imagine life without her humor, wisdom, compassion, thoughtfulness, goofiness, warmth, and love. We always have fun together. She's always there when I need her. She tells me when I'm being crazy - and when I'm on the right track. She has always had a way of making me feel treasured and loved - even when everything else seems to be falling apart.

Honestly, can't imagine life without her. Love her.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Friends.
2. Teamwork.
3. Baked potatoes!
4. The power of listening - and prayer.
5. A church that embraces a dog visiting worship services, when a member needs her dog nearby as she deals with grief. What a great place to be!
6. Recipes shared!
7. Going to an open house. So fun.
8. The hubby and I on the same page.
9. Dreaming about the future.
10. The Grammys. I loved most of the performances tonight!

30 Days of Photos: 13

2011-02-12T23:03:00.001-06:00

Day 13 - A picture of your favorite band or artist.

At the moment? Mumford and Sons. Love them.

Always? A tie between Ben Harper and Jason Mraz.

Oh! And Amos Lee...

But I listen to so many artists... It's almost impossible to choose!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A relaxing morning at home.

2. Strawberry biscuits.

3. Cooking with the hubby - so fun.

4. Having lunch with Kayla and Dad.

5. The Edina Grill. Always a fun place.

6. A beautiful day - it's warming up!

7. An evening in the city.

8. Almost talking the hubby into a trip to New Orleans...

9. People watching. Love it.

10. Noticing I'm talking to strangers more and more... More confidence? Less shy? I hope so!

30 Days of Photos: 12

2011-02-11T11:55:00.001-06:00

Day 12 - A picture of something you love.

(Davina and the Vagabonds at the Dakota Jazz Club.)

(Corey Chisel and the Wandering Sons at the Red Stag Block Party.)

(Some fun guys playing at Sea Salt Eatery by Minnehaha Falls.)

(A gypsy string quartet at the Lake Harriet Band Shell.)

(Trampled by Turtles at the MN State Fair.)

Live music! I love going to see live music - famous artists, local artists, outdoors, indoors, rock, bluegrass, folk, jazz, blues, whateva! I like it all! (We saw all of these bands within a couple weeks of each other last summer! The Twin Cities is a great place to live if you like live music! In fact... I believe we're going out for some tomorrow night!)

I'll be back later with my thankful list!

30 Days of Photos: 11

2011-02-10T11:01:00.003-06:00

Day 11 - A picture of something you hate.

"The Drainpipe" is a horrible part of the North Shore hiking trail, which I hiked with the hubby a few years ago. It's steep, rocky, gravel-y, long, did I say steep? Slippery? And it just keeps going... and going... It's where I discovered I had asthma, while carrying a pack, on a hot summer day.

Let's just say this. If God decides I haven't been a good and faithful servant in my lifetime - this is where I will be for all eternity. It will be hot, I will be having an asthma attack, there will be mosquitos and beetles all around me... and I will likely be crying.

Hate this. Really. Will never go back.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. This blog.

2. Hand sanitizer.

3. God's angels protecting me during a sneezing attack while driving. Uffda!

4. Plans coming together for our family reunion in Colorado this summer!

5. Highlighters and those sticky flags in bright, cheerful colors. I'm addicted.

6. Funny conversations with Pastor Penny.

7. Getting excited about servant evangelism. Yes, I'm a dork.

8. Peppermint tea.

9. The amaryllis... Oh dear. Here's yesterday and today.

(If you ever need an experiment for a kid - this is it. Start an amaryllis bulb. You can measure the growth by the day - maybe even the hour - and once the buds start forming, they change by the day! A little crazy looking, but interesting nonetheless!)

10. Coming home.

30 Days of Photos: 10

2011-02-09T21:09:00.001-06:00

Day 10 - A picture of the person you do the most messed up things with.

This is Amanda. Contrary to popular belief, I haven't really done a whole lot of "messed up" things. But we've had a lot of fun adventures together... and have daydreamed aloud of doing some pretty fun, messed up, things. But that seems good enough for us - the companionship, fun, and dreams!

We met as co-RAs in the dorms - our first full workday together spent watching Muppets movies, eating Subway, and checking girls into their rooms in Steiner Hall. Another favorite workday? Making door decorations all night long (they were awesome!) and blaring 80's music through the hallways when we hung them up. We've gotten lost in Chicago on an empty tank of gas. She came long on some youth group adventures in WI. She was part of the surprise for my 30th birthday. We went to Austin, TX, for a music festival with two of her other friends to celebrate her birthday. We've spent holidays together, and recently she's managed to come to the Twin Cities to spend some summer weekends... which have resulted in more funny shennanigans.

We love to laugh together - even when we probably should be crying. We support each other's dreams and goals - and encourage each other along the way. Her friendship is one of the many joys in my life... I love her.

(And if you're the praying type, the "good vibes" type, or into crossing fingers or toes - will you send her some good thoughts? She's ready to make some big changes in her life, one that requires an application that just got turned in recently... We're waiting for the decision. If she gets a "yes" - she'll be even closer to someday moving to the Twin Cities!)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. This video about the Twin Cities. It makes me smile.

2. Coffee with someone excited about what they are doing. Very fun.
3. Whole Foods. Always fun to wander their aisles.
4. An easy fix for the furnace. Phew!
5. Making a chicken, broccoli, curry hot dish that the hubby liked!
6. Sunshine.
7. Playing with the pup when I got home from work.
8. Kleenex with lotion.
9. Modern Family. Too funny.
10. Amos Lee's "Mission Bell" CD. Good stuff.

And today is Day 9 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! I went to pick up a gift card at Penzey's Spices to honor our "Chili Master" at our church (we had a chili cook-off recently). The winner was our music director, Jennifer, who is extremely competitive and made the event very fun with her enthusiasm. So, while I was picking up the gift card from the church, I also picked up some of our favorite smokey, spicy seasonings. I put them with a note on the organ bench at church... So she would find it when she came to practice tonight. Very fun!

30 Days of Photos: 9

2011-02-08T19:54:00.000-06:00

Day 09 - A picture of the person who has gotten you through the most.

(Who else would publicly wear a shirt like that, right?!)

I think this one was a given. We've been together 12 years - through most of the major changes in our lives, through learning how to live on our own, through heartbreaks and celebrations. He's the person I can count on to listen to me, tell me when I'm wrong and when I'm right, cry on his shoulder, care for me when I'm sick, laugh with me when I'm a dork, and show me each day how much he loves me - for exactly who I am... He's always there. And I love him for it.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A little more energy! Woo-hoo!
2. Laughing with my boss at work.
3. Appreciation for the notes I've been sending people. Nice!
4. Learning to like the interruption of the delivery guys at work.
5. A package arrived today - so I can start sending gifts to friends!
6. Getting ready to make some surprises...
7. Cooking dinner with the hubby - and sharing memories of the early days of cooking together...
8. ...And realizing we've come a long way in our cooking skills and recipes!
9. This picture from my friend, Emily, of her little Sam and his gorilla friend (which Aunty Meg got him). So cute!

10. It's getting closer...!

And today is Day 8 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! Today I sent a couple of notes to people I know with health issues. Just a little pick-me-up and card to brighten their days and let them know that someone is thinking of them!

30 Days of Photos: 8

2011-02-07T13:55:00.002-06:00

Day 08 - A picture that makes you laugh.

This is my parents playing cards at my house... These are their "game faces" - no matter what game we play. Mom always has the "I'm gonna win" grin. And Dad always looks philosophical as he daydreams behind his cards.

They're pretty funny. And this picture brings back lots of memories or various games... And lots of laughs.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Finishing a book.
2. And starting another.
3. Going through past photos - so fun.
4. Leftover pizza.
5. New buds on our orchid!

6. The amaryllis, again... anyday now!

7. The dog so excited when Mike came home she ran all over my floors with muddy paws! (It's kinda cute.)

8. Emergen-C. I should really buy stock in this company...

9. The hubby working on another science experiment in our kitchen... This time? Firestarters!

10. Funny messages with my sis, Emily.

And today is Day 7 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! A gift to myself today... Being ok with not forcing myself into working out when I'm still light-headed and weak. I told myself yesterday that today was the day! Time to get back to work - enough being sick. But I clearly wasn't ready - I took it slow on the elliptical and was OK with that. One more day of rest isn't so bad, right?

30 Days of Photos: 7

2011-02-06T22:15:00.002-06:00

Day 07 - A picture of your most treasured item.

Well, I chose A treasured item, rather than THE tresured item... It's too hard to pick one!

Here is my dining room table... I love it. I drooled over it for a couple of years until my hubby surprised me with it as a Christmas present one year! So sweet....

It's a place where friends and family gather - where we share wonderful meals, delightful conversation, and silly games! The hubby and I eat at it a couple of times a week - recounting our days and sharing some wine. He surprises me with fabulous meals when I've been away, we celebrate holidays and special occasions around it, and it's a place to make ordinary meals a ritual of hospitality - for each other and for guests.

This simple table is part of what makes our house a home. And I love it.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Having the hubby with me at church.
2. Returning visitors.
3. Being so proud of the way my confirmands handle themselves in tough situations!
4. Serving communion with one of my confirmands - thanks, Lydia!
5. Girl Scout cookies!
6. Hot bubble baths.
7. Spending the evening at home with the hubby.
8. Ordering pizza.
9. Packers won!
10. Going to bed happy, content, and early!

And today is Day 6 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! This morning as I was greeting people before the worship service at church, I noticed a couple who had visited our church months ago... I went up and said, "Welcome back! So good to see you again!" and asked them about some of the things we had chatted about in October. They were shocked that I remembered them so well! I was just doing what I always do... Remembering faces and conversations is part of my job - and who I am. But I realized by the delight in their faces that this was a gift to them - they were seen, heard, and remembered. A good lesson for me, too, on the importance of using my gifts!

30 Days of Photos: 6

2011-02-05T14:30:00.000-06:00

Day 06 - A picture of a person you'd love to trade places with for a day.

I've honestly been thinking about this question for 24 hours, and can't think of anyone I'd want to trade places with for a day. Is that weird? There's lots of things I'd like to do for a day... But not as part of someone else's life.

Last year, my book club read the book, "The Faith Club" - and one of the stories in the book is of one woman's father talking about choosing our "paper bags." He had a rough life, but he knew his life and accepted the "bag" he was given. Basically, he knew what to expect and how to make the most of it. He said if he was shown a pile of "paper bags" and could choose any one of them - he would always choose the one he already had. Who knew what kind of problems came in the others?

That story stuck with me. When I envy somebody else or think I'd like somebody else's life, it doesn't take long before I realize that I have no idea what problems they deal with or what sadnesses they bear... And while I've had my share of ups and downs, I would choose my journey any day.

Maybe I thought too much about this question... I should have just said "Julia Roberts." Ha!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. The hubby arrived home safe and sound last night.
2. Getting plenty of sleep.
3. I think my dog is trying to take care of me this weekend - super cute!
4. Seeing a bald eagle yesterday!
5. Finally seeing the movie "Amelie."
6. Fresh laundry.
7. Ghiradelli chocolates.
8. Funny text messages.
9. Our "magic couch."
10. Orange juice.

And today is Day 5 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! This morning the hubby was trying to get on the road to go to a birthday event. He was wrapping a birthday gift (which he hates doing) and the dog was repeatedly dropping her ball in the middle of the gift, trying to get him to play. I ended up finishing the gift wrapping so he could play with the dog for a while before he left. It was a gift for both him and the dog!

30 Days of Photos: 5

2011-02-04T08:02:00.006-06:00

Day 05 - A picture of your favorite memory.

My wedding day. Corny? Yes. But so true. I've never felt so surrounded by faith, love, and happiness. To look into my hubby's eyes, knowing it is really "forever," and being cheered on by our closest family and friends - a dream come true.

Amazing day.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A quiet day at home.
2. Yoga pants.
3. New magazines.
4. The hubby making me laugh.
5. Cheesy valentine cards.
6. My amaryllis looks like it's FINALLY gonna bloom any day now!
7. Nice email notes from friends today.
8. Spare car keys.
9. The hubby going out with friends tonight (he's visiting them while they are winter camping... I'm thankful I'm NOT going with!)
10. A movie, a blanket, hot tea, and the dog. A good enough Friday night for me!

And today is Day 4 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! Today I wrote a nice note to my hubby's brother-in-law's grandmother. The hubby is going to her 80th birthday surprise party tomorrow and I'm staying home since I don't feel well. She's been an absolute delight to know - and always so kind and loving to Mike and I. So I decided to tell her how much she means to us. I think she'll like that, a lot.

30 Days of Photos: 4

2011-02-03T15:12:00.001-06:00

Day 04 - A picture of a habit you wish you didn’t have....

Eating junk food... all things sweet, salty, greasy, buttery... you get the idea. I wish was one of those health nuts that ate no processed foods, no junk, and LOVED veggies.

I just don't think it will ever happen... But I'm working on it! (I discovered last week that I LIKE brussel sprouts! That's improvement, right?!)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Emergen-C.
2. Leftovers.
3. An office I can take a small nap in...
4. A friend willing to help me out tonight!
5. A very friendly bank teller.
6. The hubby putting gas in my car...
7. Learning to fry an egg (better than I used to).
8. Homemade bread for toast.
9. A former youth group kid, now in college, asking me what devotional to use.
10. My bed.

And today is Day 3 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! Today I wrote a note to the manager of my bank. When I deposited my check at the drive-through window I was in a grumpy mood - but that was all turned around by "Gautam" my teller. Instead of only saying, "hi," and "have a good day," he talked to me through the little camera thingy the whole time he was processing my checks. We chatted about the weather, the superbowl, and our days so far. He was upbeat, kind, and so friendly. As I drove away, I realized he gave me a gift today in making me smile... so I decided to send his manager a note and tell them how much I appreciated Gautam.

Yummy Wednesday - Pad Thai

2011-02-02T19:59:00.039-06:00

Yum! Another recipe the hubby brought home when we were craving restaurant food on a budget (and managing a waistline!). Here's a delicious pad thai recipe - sweet, salty, spicey, and tangy. We made it with shrimp, but I'm sure you could do chicken or pork, too!

Pad Thai
Courtesy of the St. Paul Pioneer Press

You'll need:
1/2 cup tamarind juice (we used tamarind chutney mixed with a couple tablespoons natural peanut butter, for a more peanutty flavor)
2 Tbsp fish sauce
2 Tbsp brown sugar
1 Tbsp rice wine vinegar (we've had trouble finding this and just used white vinegar)
8oz rice noodles (linguine size)
1-2 Tbsp peanut oil
1 lb peeled and deveined shrimp
2 tsp chopped garlic
1-2 eggs, beaten
6oz firm tofu, cut into 1/2 inch cubes
8 scallions, trimmed, halved lengthwise and cut crosswise into 1 inch pieces
1 cup shredded Napa cabbage
1 cup bean sprouts, plus more for garnish
Red pepper flakes, to taste

Garnish:
1 Tbsp chopped peanuts
Lime Wedges
Thai basil or cilantro sprigs

To Make:
1) Prepare all your ingredients first. Have them all measured, chopped, and ready to go - the cooking goes fast!

2) To make the tamarind sauce - in a small saucepan, combine tamarind (and peanut butter, if using), fish sauce, sugar, and vinegar. Cook, stirring, over medium heat until the sugar dissolves.

3) To cook the noodles - Place noodles in a mixing bowl. Cover with hot water. Let stand for 10 minutes or until pliable. Drain. Set aside.

4) Place a wok or hot pan over high heat. Let the pan get good and hot before starting to cook. Add the oil. Add shrimp. Saute for 1 minute or until pink.

5) Add garlic. Cook for 30 seconds. Add egg. Cook, stirring for 1 minute or until scrambled.

6) Add the tamarind mixture, tofu, scallions, cabbage, sprouts, pepper flakes, and drained noodles. Cook, stirring, for 2 minutes or until warmed throughout.

7) Garnish with peanuts, lime wedges, and thai basil or cilantro sprigs.

Makes about 4-6 servings.

Enjoy!

30 Days of Photos: 3

2011-02-02T15:49:00.001-06:00

Day 03 - A picture of the cast from your favorite show.

"Brothers and Sisters," for my drama selection.

And "Modern Family" and "How I Met Your Mother" tie for comedy!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Sleeping in a little to battle my cold.
2. 2 productive meetings at work.
3. Getting a lot of "busy work" done this week.
4. Hot tea.
5. A warm lunch.
6. Acknowledgement of the work I've been doing just as burnout was setting in... Now I can keep going!
7. The hubby going grocery shopping...
8. ...AND making one of my favorite dinners!
9. A hot shower.
10. Falling asleep early again.

And today is Day 2 of the 29 Day Giving Challenge! Today I graciously stayed away from people - so as not to get them sick!

30 Days of Photos: 2

2011-02-01T08:09:00.002-06:00

Post a picture of you and the person you have been close with for awhile:

This is Mike, my hubby. We've been together almost 12 years, and married 7. He's the bestest.
(And he's making me dinner tonight!)

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A cuddly pup.
2. Nice compliments from strangers for the work I do.
3. Laughing with my co-workers.
4. Pop-tarts.
5. Chatting with Amanda.
6. Encouragement from friends.
7. A fun Missions Team meeting!
8. Hubby made a delish dinner! (Morel mushroom risotto - Yum!)
9. Sweatpants and a glass of wine.
10. Steering wheel warmers. Lovely.

And today I start the 29 Day Giving Challenge! Today I wrote 3 thank you notes to people who helped me out this weekend, and 7 notes to people I miss seeing at church! Hopefully, these handwritten notes will brighten their days!

30 Days of Photos: 1

2011-01-31T17:10:00.000-06:00

My youngest sister, Kayla, has been doing this on her Facebook page - and it's been so fun to read! So, I thought I'd copy her and do it here... Here goes!

Post a picture of yourself with 15 facts:

(In Portland last fall. Enjoying the afternoon at a park with my friend, Jill.)

1. My feet get really cold, therefore I love fuzzy socks and Smartwools!
2. I do my best thinking in the shower... and most recently, on the elliptical!
3. I'm a night person. Mornings are still rough.
4. I can't have caffeine after 10am or I won't sleep... Isn't that sad?
5. I'm addicted to Indian food at the moment.
6. I've been learning how to make all kinds of bread products over the last year. My next challenge? Naan.
7. I have never craved going somewhere warm more than I am right now!
8. I've been sky-diving twice and there's a hum on the grapevine that I may be able to do it again this summer for charity! Woo-hoo!
9. I love fireworks. LOVE them.
10. I love my job as Director of Youth and Outreach at a Methodist church. It's a great place to be.
11. I'm cheering for the Packers on Super Bowl Sunday!
12. I can't wait to go back to Ireland... There's so much more I want to see and experience!
13. I got the hubby a gift certificate to brew his own beer - and I can't wait to go with him!
14. I love the sound of my dog's toe nails on hard floors. It makes me smile.
15. One of my biggest pet peeves? Cell phones. People talking on them, or texting, while they're driving, walking, grocery shopping, in a restaurant, etc. Pay attention to what you're doing and to the people you're with, please!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A quiet day at home.
2. Not needing to drive on the roads today.
3. Having time to read.
4. Leftover chili - Yowsers! It's spicy! (yum...)
5. The hubby shoveled.
6. The hubby got to go snowboarding.
7. Feeling rested. Finally.
8. Blue Heron soap.
9. Fresh baked bread.
10. A quiet night.

One Body

2011-01-30T20:21:00.058-06:00

"Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their work:
If one falls down,
his friend can help him up.
But pity the man who falls
and has no one to help him up!"
--Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

"O Lord, I have been called to be part of a holy community. You did not call me in isolation but placed me in the body of Christ, along with every other believer in Jesus throughout the world in every age. Let us grow as a team, work as a team, worship as a team, weep, laugh, and live as a team. Grant me the wisdom and the strength to partner with you and with my brothers and sisters in Christ. For Jesus' sake and in his name I pray. Amen."
--Max Lucado, from "Outlive Your Life"

Today was a wonderful Sunday! A reminder of being part of a faith community that truly is "one body" working to move forward in faith and trust.

In worship this morning, there was such joy and laughter in the service that I couldn't help but LOVE this community. The kids and I did the 'hokey pokey' during the children's sermon - and the whole congregation spontaneously joined in! Awesome. Small groups were being talked about in exciting ways. The chili-cookoff that would be happening this evening had everyone teasing that they would win! We had two people share inspiring stories on the ways their $5 (from the Living a Better Story Challenge) had made a difference in the world. We even rolled out a list, that stretched from the altar to the back of the sanctuary, of ALL the ways the people of our congregation are serving in the world around us! A visual that brought many gasps and surprised "oh!"s. Our Pastor said a special blessing today on our community - and all the ways we are present in the world, as a sign of God's love.

It was buzzing with energy and enthusiasm.

Then, this evening the celebration continued! We had our first ever chili-cookoff! A very fun night! Lots of yummy food - and fun conversation. Prizes were awarded. A young kid came just to eat all the chili he could - and even says if we do it again next year, he's bringing his grandma's chili! It was a fun and light-hearted way to share fellowship with one another.

Following dinner, we went into the sanctuary for our Annual Church Meeting. (I've been to many of these over the years - mostly boring, lifeless, or full of intense bickering.) But this was a celebration! The leaders of our church were able to give uplifting and encouraging reports of what we had accomplished in the past year - and had high hopes for the coming year! There was laughter, jokes, even a toy puppy that rolled around on the floor laughing with glee!

It's such an honor and a privilege to be part of a congregation that is so ALIVE. (At my workshop on Saturday, we learned that leadership isn't about having all the answers - but about asking the big questions. And not about everyone agreeing - but everyone staying in the conversation. This is happening here - on many levels.)

Thank you St. Paul's Church - for a great night, and a great year! Here's looking forward to another one!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. "Marcel the Shell with Shoes On." If you like a little whimsy, and a fun laugh - check out this video. It makes me giggle more every time I watch it. (Thanks, Matt, for sharing it with me!)

2. So MANY little kids at church today! It sure made the Hokey Pokey fun!
3. People recognizing all the things I'm up to behind the scenes at work.
4. Talking with Steve and Dana during the fellowship hour - so fun!
5. The hubby making our chili and cornbread so I could take a much-needed nap. Love him!
6. The team of ladies that helped with the dinner - I'm so grateful for their help!
7. Jennifer winning the chili-cookoff - she's been pretty intense about the competition! She deserved it!
8. Lots of great food!
9. A wonderful, uplifting meeting. So many great people, asking great questions, and sharing postitive observations.
10. Coming home, and feeling content. Life is good.

Saturday Thanks

2011-01-29T22:49:00.022-06:00

Things I am thankful for today:

1. The hubby making me coffee for my early morning drive.
2. An excellent all-day training event!
3. Sharing the event with a friend from church.
4. Seeing old friends at the event.
5. Feeling affirmed in the way we are leading our church forward!
6. Lots of laughter - and great food!
7. Going downtown to an outdoor beer-tasting event - love my long underwear! (The Beer Dabbler at Mears Park in St. Paul, MN)

(There were a LOT of people out to taste beer in the 20 degree weather!)

(Oh yeah - crowds around the bonfires, warming hands, feet, and butts!)

8. Beer-enthusiasts are the nicest people!
9. Having a delicious dinner afterwards!
10. Having fun with the hubby!

Everyday Devotion

2011-01-28T22:27:00.020-06:00

"The ordinary acts we practice every day at home are of more importance to the soul than their simplicity might suggest."
--Thomas Moore

"Does flossing your teeth feed your soul? Does sorting laundry make you thrive? It most certainly can. It's not just prayer that brings us closer to our spiritual selves. We don't turn off our soul's work in order to do the dishes. Any action at all can be devotional in nature if it is done from a clear, loving place. Caring for your body, your home, and your family don't have to be time away spiritual practice. They can be meditative, or they can just be what they are: simple actions, repeated, toward a goal of living better. The more positive energy we bring to them, the easier they will be and the more they will serve us on many levels."
--Mina Parker, from "Less is More"

Simple actions, repeated, toward a goal of living better. People make fun of me for being so neat and making sure my house is clean and in order - but this is exactly what it is. Simple actions. Time to think. De-cluttering = de-stressing. I've even found lately that I do some of my best brainstorming when I'm on the elliptical! Half an hour of pushing myself in repetitive actions that make my blood pump harder, my breath forced in and out, and my brain synapses firing left and right!

I do these things to take care of myself - and to continue to bring clarity into my day. As odd as it sounds, cleaning and exercising are gifts in my day.

Whoa. That was a weird discovery! Ha ha ha.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Reading for fun.
2. Getting some more details in place for the weekend.
3. A date night with the hubby!
4. Gift cards for an almost free date night!
5. Mozzarella sticks - a guilty pleasure.
6. A movie so horrible all we could do is look at each other and bust out laughing.
7. Running into friends at the movie that had the same response!
8. Getting my car washed - finally!
9. A call from a friend. Love her.
10. Going to bed somewhat early for a Friday night! (It was kind of nice...)

Surprisingly Ordinary

2011-01-27T20:57:00.023-06:00

"Only if there is beauty in us can we recognize beauty elsewhere: beauty knows beauty. In this way, beauty can be a mirror that manifests our own beauty. This has little to do with narcissism or self-absorption. To achieve a glimpse of inner beauty strengthens our sense of dignity and grace. The glimpse ennobles us; it helps awaken and refine our reverence for the intimate eternal that dwells in us. Yet the recognition of another person's beauty can sometimes induce envy and a sense of inferiority. When we succumb to envy, we have become blind to ourselves. In the end, the truth is surprisingly ordinary - that there is beauty in every life regardless of how inauspicious, dull or hardened its surface might seem."
--John O'Donohue, from "Beauty"

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A quiet day at the office - easy to get lots done!
2. Completed projects.
3. Willing helpers.
4. Praying with a friend.
5. A visit from Woods, a beautiful visla (dog).
6. A wonderfully fun group of women at our "Conspiracy of Kindness" group tonight!
7. The beautiful ways people are sharing their stories.
8. The hubby having dinner ready for me when I got home at 8pm. What a sweetie!
9. A baby we've been praying for was re-united with his adoptive family today! Woo-hoo!
10. My hubby.

Yummy Wednesday - Oatmeal Pancakes

2011-01-26T20:25:00.000-06:00

I've been looking for a yummy oatmeal pancake recipe for a long time! I had some at a favorite restaurant a few years ago - and every time I've been back... They haven't had them. Buggers. But now? Now I can make my own! They're filling and delish!

Oatmeal Pancakes
from the Penzey's Spices catalog (Winter 2011)

You'll need:
3/4 cup oat flour (you can make your own by grinding 1 cup whole oats - not instant - in a food processor)
1 cup all-purpose flour
2 Tbsp sugar
1 1/2 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp baking soda
1/2 tsp cinnamon
pinch of nutmeg (freshly grated is best!)
3/4 tsp kosher salt
3 Tbsp butter (melted and cooled slightly)
1 1/4 cups buttermilk
1 cup cooked oatmeal*, not instant
1 Tbsp honey
2 large eggs
1/4 cup finely chopped pecans (optional)

To make:

1) Mix together the oat flour, flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon, nutmeg, and salt in a large bowl.

2) In a smaller bowl, stir the melted cooled butter, buttermilk, cooked oatmeal, honey, and eggs together until thoroughly combined.

3) Gently fold the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients only until combined. Fold in the pecans. Do not over mix; the batter will not have a uniform appearance.

4) Heat a griddle over medium-high heat until water sizzles when dripped onto the pan. Lightly coat the pan with 1 tsp melted butter.

5) Drop batter into the pan in 1/4 cup mounds. Flip the pancakes when bubbles begin to form around the edges and cook until the bottom is a dark golden brown, about 5 minutes total.

6) You may keep the pancakes warm in a 200 degree oven, if needed, until all are completed.

* To make cooked oatmeal, bring 2 cups of water, 1 cup of whole rolled oats and a pinch of salt to a boil and simmer on low for 5 minutes. Let cool.

Makes about 20 pancakes.

Enjoy!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Penzey's Spices - all kinds of good stuff!
2. The new Amos Less CD - "Mission Bell."
3. Spending the afternoon with Em, Sam, and Elly.

(Mom, the jewelry was a big hit!)

4. Play-dough. It's awesome.
5. Elly's "Oh, sure."
6. Friendship.
7. My mom making soup for my friend. Very nice.
8. The hubby doing a lot around the house this week - so nice.
9. Dozing on the couch... So relaxing.
10. "Modern Family" - makes me chuckle.

Ingredients for Joy and Meaning

2011-01-25T21:54:00.000-06:00

In the book, "The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brene Brown, one of the ways she suggests to set priorities in your home is to come up with a list that answers the question, "When things are going really well in our family, what does it look like?" The answers that come forth are your ingredients for Joy and Meaning.

So today, I'm thinking about my list... Here's a start:
When things are going really well in my family, what does it look like?

*  Getting 8 hours of sleep.
*  Eating a healthy breakfast.
*  Making time to exercise.
*  Taking a few moments in the morning to read and write.
* The hubby kisses me goodbye in the morning.
* The house is picked up (I know it seems petty, but it's one less thing to get on my nerves.).
*  Laughing throughout the day.
* Work is fulfilling and fun.
*  Doing at least one small thing a day that makes a difference to someone else.
* Not rushing... But noticing the world around me (hawks, rainbows, snowmen, etc.).
*  Having dinner with the hubby.
*  Having the time to talk about our days - the ups and downs.
* Having a calendar full of fun things to look forward to.
* Keeping up on my "things I'm thankful for" list.
* Prayer.
* Laughing with my parents and sisters.
* Spending time with friends - and helping them out when they need it.
* Having the time and energy to volunteer.
* Music. Everywhere.
*  Cooking a couple of times a week.
*  Going for walks with the pup.
*  Exploring new things and places.
*  Saying "I love you" to those I love.
* Surprises!
* Having faith that everything will work out.
* Learning from mistakes and moving on.
* Celebrating successes!
* Noticing the blessings in the people that surround me everyday.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Inspirational books.
2. Ways to improve our daily lives.
3. Getting 8 hours of sleep last night!
4. Chocolate soy milk on Rice Krispies - a fun morning treat!
5. The house smelling like fresh baked bread.
6. Playing with the dog - and all 3 of her tennis balls!
7. Pictures of my sister in California - looks like lots of laughter!
8. Prayers for friends.
9. People talking smack about our chili-cookoff at church - fun competition!
10. Home.

BOOM BOOM: So Proud

2011-01-24T23:43:00.000-06:00

When I took out this card... I have to admit, I wasn't sure I could do anything with it. I always keep my phone in my purse or pocket, and on silent if I'm with someone else. It drives me nuts when I'm visiting with people and they're constantly checking their phone. So I'm very aware of putting mine away.

(In fact, I used to never wear a watch - I'd just use my phone as my clock. But I realized, it meant I always was looking at my phone to check the time and the person I was with probably thought I was more interested in waiting for a call or text, than talking to them. That was not ok. I bought a watch and wore one for the first time in 10 years!)

So, back to the card. I wasn't sure I could use it - but I noticed myself paying more attention to how other people used their cell phones - and found someone to be very proud of!

I recently met one of my former youth group kids for lunch. He's in college now and doing very well. He's fun to be around and full of interesting conversation. We were having a wonderful time catching up when he told me that his new girlfriend and he were going sledding after he and I finished lunch. (We had already been talking for a couple of hours!) I asked if he needed to go, realizing his phone had vibrated a few times during our conversation and wondering if he was anxious to leave. But, he didn't even check the phone. He was completely present in our visit.

For a college guy, to put away his phone, when he's awaiting a call from his new, beautiful girlfriend - in order to chat with an old youth director?! Wow. I was so proud of the consideration and respect - and of the person he is, and is becoming.

What a wonderful gift to me. Thanks, John!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. The ability to sleep in after a rough night. (Loud winds = migraine. Ugh.)
2. Hubby comes home tonight!
3. Making homemade marinara sauce. Yum.
4. The dog is SO HAPPY to have the hubby home.
5. Daydreaming.
6. Good books.
7. Pastor Penny comes back this week - work will get back to normal!
8. Egyptian Licorice tea.
9. Getting through a tough workout today.
10. Did I mention the hubby is home? :)

Life Inventory

2011-01-23T20:53:00.001-06:00

The lesson from this week's chapter of "Secrets of Simplicity" is about identifying excessive responsibilities in our lives. Part of today's reading:

"Overabundance affects more than just the stuff we buy - it can show up in all areas of our lives, including work, home, social activities, and parenting. Just like that bright-colored cereal box that somehow ends up in our grocery cart (did we really choose those cornflakes?), one area of your life may automatically commandeer most of your time and energy, and you may not even realize it."

The following inventory is an exercise in looking at what is standing in the way of "your livelihood, your health, your ability to ultimately grow... As you review your responses, think about whether they represent a life of your choosing."

(As you read through this list, respond "Always" "Sometimes" or "Never" - and see what you notice about the choices you are currently making for your life... What does it reveal?)

Do I make time to exercise? Always (at least, since Jan. 2nd)
Is my home life serene? Always
Do I have downtime? Always
So I have time to deal with incoming mail and bills? Always
Do I have time to volunteer for a charity? Sometimes (I'm working on it!)
Do the significant people in my life receive my attention when they need it? Always
Do I keep my appointments? Always
Do I see my friends? Sometimes (could use more visits...)
Do I eat regular, healthy meals? Always
Am I in control of my calendar? Always
Are my home repairs done in a timely manner? Most of the time?
Is my pantry stocked? Always
Do I find time to get out and enjoy nature? Sometimes (would like to more)
Am I getting enough sleep? Sometimes
Do I take regular vacations? Sometimes
Do I work less than 10 hours a day? Most of the time...
Is my work fulfilling? Always

Interesting... I was thinking a couple of weeks ago, that I feel pretty "balanced" these days... And I think this list hints at that, too. The things I'd like to work on aren't exactly surprises!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. A great morning at church.
2. Teamwork.
3. Matt's birthday (and Ghiradelli brownies!).
4. Chatting with Marion, Jean, and LaDean after worship - what cool ladies.
5. Going to visit my future bed and breakfast with my parents. Ha ha ha. It really is a LOVELY property. I wish, I wish, I wish... (Anyone want to donate to the cause?)

6. Dinner with Mom and Dad at San Pedro. Yum.
7. Aliza was back!
8. My nightly phone call from the hubby (he's home in Milwaukee til Monday).
9. Watching and movie and reading before bed - a nice, quiet night.
10. Catching my headache before it got too bad.

Saturday Thanks

2011-01-22T21:33:00.001-06:00

Today I am thankful for:

1. Quiet.
2. Dancing to good tunes.
3. Jalapeno poppers with raspberry preserves.
4. Fresh, cut up veggies to snack on.
5. The movie, "Alice in Wonderland" - I actually kind of liked it!
6. Other people's generosity.
7. More pesky chores getting done.
8. Making homemade bagels!

9. Actually getting the shoveling done...
10. Fun plans for tomorrow afternoon.

Just a Day

2011-01-21T00:32:00.000-06:00

"Nothing hurts you more than your expectations. 'If you trust life and learn to embrace it and try not to control everything, then life can be more wondrous than you thought it would be.'"
--Sarah Ban Breathnach

Just came across this quote today and thought it was so true! Had to share...

Otherwise, it's been a pretty quiet day. I got to stay home all day - reading, watching movies, doing some chores. It was lovely.

Now, I'm looking outside and seeing snow falling. Doh! The hubby is gone for the weekend, which means I'm going to have to SHOVEL for the first time in years!!! LOL Oh well. I suppose I could use that for some of my exercise today, huh?

I have plans to go out with one of my favorite people tonight - and I can't wait! Just a simple dinner out - but we always have a wonderful time and talk until we're yawning more than talking... and realize it's really time to get on the road. That's a sign of a great friendship!

Life is good.

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Sleeping in (as much as I can with the dog, anyway - she woke me up at 5am, 7am, and 8am!).
2. A clean, quiet house.
3. Restaurants that have nutritional info online so I can plan what I'll order before I get there. Tricky tricky!
4. I made it through a rough workout.
5. Beautiful, fluffy, glittery snow falling!
6. A wonderful evening out with Em!
7. Em's funny way of including everyone in her night out - including the waitress. She offered Em free dessert for her first girls' night out since having a baby! Too funny!
8. A funny phone call from my mom.
9. Great music in the car while driving home at midnight!
10. Deciding to wait til tomorrow to shovel...

Its Own Reward

2011-01-20T22:15:00.000-06:00

"Act with kindness, but do not expect gratitude."
--Confucius

"There is much to be said for uncomplicated motivations. Less is more. Do what you mean and mean what you do. There's no point in cluttering up a perfectly good gesture with a bunch of excess expectations."
--Mina Parker, "Less is More"

We started a new small group tonight, based on the book, "The Conspiracy of Kindness" by Steven Sjogren. The whole idea is about sharing our faith through actions. Intentional, unexpected actions. Actions that inspire people to ask, "why are you doing this?" So that we can simply say, "to show you God's love in a practical way. That's all!"

Fits right in with some of my other goals for this year - and apparently is intriguing to many others! We have about 12 people signed up for the 7-week group. Very cool!

We had some great discussion tonight about what it means to show love through actions - and our expectations when we do. I think it's funny I read the above quotes tonight - they perfectly reflected our discussion!

I can't wait to see how the next 7 weeks develop: how we begin to view sharing our faith together through these acts, the things we'll brainstorm for our own community, and the little "practice" assignments we'll do throughout the study! I think it will be a lot of fun! And a great way to bring our community together.

What are you up to tonight?

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Working from home.
2. Having lunch with the hubby before he left for a long weekend.
3. Brussel Sprouts. Whoa. I made them for the first time last night - and I liked them!
4. A great group tonight - everyone was very supportive of one another.
5. Seeing a friend at Target tonight - fun to catch up.
6. It's nice to have the dog at home, ready to greet me when the hubby is away.
7. Indian food for dinner. YUM.
8. Curling up in bed with a book - a rare luxury.
9. A great workout.
10. Plans to go out tomorrow night!

Yummy Wednesday - Spicy Shrimp Curry

2011-01-19T20:15:00.001-06:00

Well, ever since we got back from Amsterdam, where I had Indonesian food for the first time - I have been in love with anything containing curry, cocount milk, and spice! I have cravings that don't abate until I get myself some Indian food... and have been looking for some recipes to make at home. The hubby came through last week with this recipe - it rocked my world! (And yes, it is pretty spicy!)

Spicy Shrimp Curry
Found in the St. Paul Pioneer Press Newspaper

Adapted from a recipe for a curry from Goa in the south of India in "American Masala" by Suvir Saran (Clarkson Potter, 2007). Curry leaves, available at Indian markets, lend a nutty flavor. Serve with cooked basmati rice.

You need:
1 pound frozen, peeled raw shrimp, thawed
1/2 teaspoon coarse salt
1/4 teaspoon fresh ground black pepper
1/4 teaspoon ground red pepper
2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice

For the sauce:
3 tablespoons canola oil
20 curry leaves, optional
4 small dried red chiles
1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
1 piece (3 inches long) ginger root, peeled, minced
1 red onion, chopped
2 teaspoons coarse salt
2 cloves garlic, chopped
2 teaspoons ground coriander
1/2 teaspoon turmeric
1/2 teaspoon curry powder
1 can (15 ounces) diced tomatoes
1 can (15 ounces) coconut milk
1 cup chopped cilantro

To thaw shrimp:
Run the frozen shrimp under cold water or soak them for 10 minutes or just until thawed. Then, cook the shrimp with seasonings or a sauce for three minutes or until shrimp turn pink. And if you want dinner even faster, use already-cooked shrimp and skip the marinating step. Add the shrimp and some lemon juice at the very end of cooking.

To marinate shrimp:
1) In food storage bag, mix shrimp, salt, pepper, red pepper and lemon juice.
2)Toss to coat. Refrigerate.

To make sauce:
1) In wok or large skillet, heat oil, curry leaves and chiles over medium-high heat for 1 minute or until sizzling.
2) Add pepper, ginger, onion and salt. Cook, stirring and sprinkling with a little water to keep from sticking if necessary, for 5 minutes or until onion is golden.
3) Add garlic, coriander, turmeric and curry powder. Cook for 1 minute or until fragrant. Reduce heat to medium.
4) Add tomatoes. Cook, stirring, for 1 minute. Increase heat to medium-high. Cook, stirring, for 5 minutes. 5) Add coconut milk. Bring to a boil.

To add shrimp: Add shrimp and juices. Heat for 2 minutes or just until shrimp are cooked through and pink. Stir in cilantro.

Makes 6 servings.

Enjoy!

Today I am thankful for:

1. Aveda moisturizer.
2. Ellen DeGeneres.
3. Chatting with Diane.
4. Smoothies.
5. A great workout!
6. Nice notes from faraway friends.
7. Plans to go out with a friend this weekend!
8. A nice dinner with the hubby before he leaves for a long weekend.
9. Recognizing that vulnerablilites lead to so many blessings!
10. Book group last night -so fun!

The Gifts of Imperfection

2011-01-18T22:12:00.142-06:00

We finally had book group tonight and got to discuss Brene Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are."

Can I tell you - I really loved this book! (In fact, if you are a close friend of mine... Don't go buy it if it sounds intriguing... There may be one in your mailbox soon!)

I loved it. There were so many things in this book that rang true in my life - and so many things that keep coming back to me in certain moments of my day... The author is funny and down to earth - and so easy to relate to. I thought I'd share a few of my favorite insights with you:

1) "Men and women who live Wholeheartedly (meaning they engage in their lives from a place of worthiness) DIG deep... when they are exhausted and overwhelmed." They D: become deliberate in their thoughts and behaviors through prayer, meditation, or simply setting their intentions. I: are inspired to make new and different choices. G: They get going. They take action. In other words, we have control over our lives even when we are feeling like we don't - it's just a matter of taking a moment and taking inventory of what is really happening, and then making intentional decisions to move forward in a way that is life-giving to ourselves.

2) The gifts of imperfection that Brene focuses on throughout the book are Courage, Compassion, and Connection. When we practice these daily in our lives, we begin to feel worthy through love, joy, and gratitude. So true!

3) One of the key topics is the courage to be vulnerable. When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable within relationships, we more fully live out courage, experience compassion, and develop connections. I feel like this has been the theme of my last year! At one point Brene says, "Ordinary courage is about putting our vulnerability on the line. In today's world, that's pretty extraordinary!"

4) The chapter about Compassion spoke VOLUMES to me. She says, "The heart of compassion is really acceptance. The better we are at accepting ourselves and others, the more compassionate we become. Well, it's difficult to accept people when they are hurting us or taking advantage of us or walking all over us... If we really want to practice compassion, we have to start by setting boundaries and holding people accountable for their behavior." Boundaries + Accountability + Acceptance = Compassion. Great lesson. Great chapter. It goes on to say, "When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated... It's impossible to practice compassion from a place of resentment."

5) Another eye-opening lesson - about giving and receiving. "Until we can receive with an open heart, we are never really giving with an open heart. When we attach judgement to receiving help, we knowingly or unknowingly attach judgement to giving help." Light bulb! I have had so many discussions lately with people, encouraging them to ask for help when they need it... And I've never thought about it this way. Beautifully put!

6) Brene Brown's main research over the years has been in Shame and Vulnerability. And what she writes on these topics is very well done. She talks about shame being the fear that we am unlovable - but that when we have those special people in our lives who can listen to our shame stories - the shame loses power. She says of "the people who own and share their stories - I realize they are also people who practice shame resilience" (the art of living without shame). Once again... It all comes down to being able to share our stories - this time for our own health and well-being. She continues saying, "Shame is about fear, blame, and disconnection. Story is about worthiness and embracing the imperfections that bring us courage, compassion, and connection."

7) Wonderful chapters on Authenticity, Perfection, Hope and Spirit, Joy and Gratitude, Intuition and Creativity, Play and Rest, Calm and Stillness, Meaningful Work, and Laughter Song and Dance.

8) "Courage is telling our story, not being immune to criticism. Staying vulnerable is a risk we have to take if we want to experience connection."

9) "Imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together. Imperfectly, but together."

10) "Spirituality is recognizing and celebrating that we are all inextricably connected to each other by a power that is greater than all of us, and that our connection to that power and to one another is grounded in love and compassion. Practicing spirituality brings a sense of perspective, meaning, and purpose to our lives."

11) "Joy is as thorny and sharp as any of the dark emotions. To love someone fiercely, to believe in something with your whole heart, to celebrate a fleeting moment in time, to fully engage in a life that doesn't come with guarantees - these are risks that involve vulnerability and often pain. When we lose our tolerance for discomfort, we lose joy."

12) "People were quick to point out the difference between happiness and joy as the difference between a human emotion that's connected to circumstance and a spiritual way of engaging with the world that's connected to practicing gratitude."

And with that, my friends, I give you the things I am thankful for today:

1. Lots of reading today - for work and pleasure.
2. Peppermint tea.
3. A great (and fun) workout.
4. A big group for Book Group tonight! So fun to have new people join the conversation!
5. Lots of laughter - good for the soul.
6. Being able to pray for so many friends.
7. Keeping perspective.
8. My hubby. He's great. And he puts up with me and my crazy ideas.
9. Sharing a chocolate bar. A special treat. (Vosges Caramel Blood Orange - delish!)
10. Feeling blessed.

BOOM BOOM: Taking My Time

2011-01-17T23:13:00.001-06:00

I was a little skeptical with this card. I hold doors open for people all the time, so I didn't know if I'd really see any new opportunities or witness any unusual reactions. But today, as I headed out to meet a friend for lunch and shopping on a busy street in St. Paul, my hubby reminded me it would be a great place to play this card. So I did!

I decided to splurge and park in a parking ramp (it's an area of the city where it can be nearly impossible to find street parking!)... feeling a little guilty for spending the money on the convenience factor. But I ended up parking on the roof of the ramp - at the same time as several other cars, obviously all together! As I walked to the door for the stairway, I noticed them all falling into line behind me - so I held the door for all of them (maybe 9 or 10). They laughed and said "thank you." And I went on my way, down the stairs instead of waiting for the elevator. It looked like I was early for meeting my friend, so no rush!

I got downstairs, and was met with a long hallway to get outside. As I was walking down the hallway, I heard the elevator open behind me - and heard the voices of the laughing group of ladies from the roof! Once again, as I reached the door to outside, I stood and opened the door while they cheerfully passed through.

Once outside, they stood around chatting like they didn't quite know where they wanted to go first. So, I politely squeezed by and headed to the building of the restaurant where I was to meet my friend. I walked inside, looked around, and noticed Jill wasn't there yet... So I stood by the window, watching people pass by.

A couple of minutes later, guess who decides to come to the same restaurant? Yep! The same group of ladies from the parking ramp! So, once again, I go to the door and hold it open for this group. They seemed shocked and giggled - asking if I was their personal door-person for the day. I laughed. I enjoyed being part of their day.

They seemed to be a group of grandmothers, mothers, and daughters - out enjoying a day off of school and work to have a little shopping fun together. It was nice to share this act of simple kindness - and watch them light up and laugh each time.

Throughout the rest of the day I paid extra attention at each door we went through to see if I could hold it for someone - and noticed that my friend always did the same. It's such a simple act of courtesy - and a pity more people don't do it automatically. I know, while I already do this much of the time, I'm going to make the effort to be more intentional about it in the future...We all should, really!

To read about other Boom Booms, check out the website!

Things I am thankful for today:

1. Waking up with the hubby home on a Monday. How nice!
2. A re-scheduled dentist appointment - lucky me!
3. Good news from a friend!
4. Another Boom Boom completed!
5. A delish cup of chili at lunch. Mmm...
6. Fun, funky shops on Grand Ave.
7. Exploring the new world of consignment shops!
8. Sharing my day with Jill - so fun!
9. A yummy, light dinner of baked trout and edamame. Yum!
10. A glass of wine before bed. Lovely.